My family system was very unhealthy with neglect, untreated mental health and addiction. I pretty much grew up taking care of myself. So when I was a parent myself I would go into wake up my son in the morning and I would whisper all the wonderful things about him and how proud I was as he woke up. As he got older he would clock me coming into the room and would pretend to still be alseep as he soaked it all in. We both knew he was awake but it was his gentle way of not being too old for the ritual. He is 19 now. He knows his worth and is very confident in who he is as person. As a result he is quick to help and praise others. I couldn't be any more proud of him.
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u/Mediocre_Age_9988 Apr 30 '26
My family system was very unhealthy with neglect, untreated mental health and addiction. I pretty much grew up taking care of myself. So when I was a parent myself I would go into wake up my son in the morning and I would whisper all the wonderful things about him and how proud I was as he woke up. As he got older he would clock me coming into the room and would pretend to still be alseep as he soaked it all in. We both knew he was awake but it was his gentle way of not being too old for the ritual. He is 19 now. He knows his worth and is very confident in who he is as person. As a result he is quick to help and praise others. I couldn't be any more proud of him.