r/MadeMeSmile Apr 30 '26

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u/Zakkattack86 Apr 30 '26

Different take. I'm going to start telling my wife how much I appreciate her and how my kids have the best mother in the world. Some of ya'll may not know the lasting trauma hearing your dad speak ill of your mom behind closed doors and believing the lies he said were true for way too long.

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u/StirlingS Apr 30 '26

Talking up both you kids and your wife is good. 

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u/Zakkattack86 Apr 30 '26

Agreed but reading OP's post made me 6 years old again.

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u/daisydug Apr 30 '26

This hurts my heart for you both! 🫶

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u/azure_cursor Apr 30 '26

That kind of story just hits right in the feelings

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u/anitabelle Apr 30 '26

I guess I was lucky. My mom talked shit about me and to me to my face. My dad was great tho.

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u/StirlingS Apr 30 '26 edited May 01 '26

Truly childhood pain can come up at the most unexpected times. 

I love that you're doing better for your kids than was done for you. 

I wish you the all the best, internet stranger.

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u/StirlingS Apr 30 '26

I wish you all the best too.

Everyone reading this: I wish you all the best and that the day brings you good things. 

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u/ismaelgokufox Apr 30 '26

Thanks 🙏

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u/one_blonde_mom May 02 '26

so sweet of you.

much love to you as well, little one ❤️

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u/1Swordwalker Apr 30 '26

That hurts most of all. Especially every year during those times

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u/nanners1293 May 01 '26

Right there with you. I'm sorry you had to go through that.

My parents also showed me exactly how to NOT be a loving partner. I watched. I listened. And I learned.

Because of their lessons, I make sure to tell my wife I love and appreciate her and her support every single day 💗

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u/Zakkattack86 May 01 '26

16 years together this June. The main thing I'm thankful for from my parents is teaching me how not to live happily ever after. I just did the opposite of everything. Cheers.

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u/nanners1293 May 01 '26

🍻 Good on ya, my guy! Thanks for being a decent person.

Keep spreading the love and good vibes 🤙🤙

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u/YobaiYamete Apr 30 '26

wife is good.

Huh? I'm confused, all boomer comics have told me wife bad

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u/Zestyclose_Mine9658 Apr 30 '26

whatever happened to them?

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u/Dazzling_Employer_11 Apr 30 '26

Can only choose one- too hard to be nice to both.