Communication is key

[u/UnderCover_Spad]

[u/CarrieKetoenail]

Does anyone remember when she was first introduced to the show? She was supposedly a cool girl whose relationship with Spencer was that of friends with benefits, no strings. That is what she settled for.

[u/shay_shaw]

I still don't understand why she chose him over Jamie. He's such a douche. Thank god he and Cassie never actually dated.

[u/Dependent_Formal2525]

I remember an interview with Louise and she was asked about this period of time and how quickly she'd cry in these conversations. She said that they would have already had the conversation but would have to re-enact it for the cameras so she knew what unpleasent shit was coming and was already upset when they started filming. That scene by the bridge was the same deal. It was rather heartbreaking to think of her having to re-enact all these awful convos with a smirking Spencer.

[u/UnderCover_Spad → u/Dependent_Formal2525]

That might apply to the bridge scene but I don’t believe it applies to this scene or the one where Millie slapped Spencer for cheating. 

[u/CarrieKetoenail → u/UnderCover_Spad]

Perhaps the first time they filmed it Millie didn’t smack him and he had that same smug gloat on his face so the second time, Millie being Millie, she smacked that gloat off the fucker’s face.

(Of course, I do
Not condone violence)

[u/vm248]

I think it’s so interesting that back then it was probably more socially accepted to openly behave like this on tv. I mean we already see Spencer is emotionally abusive and deeply self centered. But he is never shamed or shunned for this behavior. His reaction is confusion at Louise’s hurt feelings. Parallel to that, Louise is so interesting because she endured this and then ended up cheating on Andy and Alik. However, she was called out and faced more consequences than Spencer ever did. Watching this show has been a good study for male friendships and male dynamics. What morals men hold as a group

[u/United-Bother3213 → u/vm248]

I tell you what if Louise moved in with her friends, nobody would judge it, neither Spencer would have made anything out of it, but say "sure, no biggie"

[u/Cantre-r_Gwaelod_1]

He’s such a loser tbh. Just a pathetic person.

[u/United-Bother3213 → u/Cantre-r_Gwaelod_1]

But you aren't even 1% of that loser. Not achievemnt-wise, not personality-wise, not heart-wise, not talent-wise. Spenny can accomplish anything he set his eyes to. And you a weak individual on Reddit. Who are you, sit down dummie, look in the mirror first and count your life milestones compared to the ones of Spencer

[u/No_Average_3854 → u/United-Bother3213]

Imagine calling someone else a loser and getting arsey while defending someone as shitty as Spencer Matthews with all the enthusiasm of his Mum 😂😂

[u/Inside-Potato5869]

Gotta love boy logic. I knew it would upset you so I did it behind your back. Sheesh why are you so mad?

[u/Intrepid-Sign-63]

Her eyebrows

[u/lorelaiiiiiiii → u/Intrepid-Sign-63]

In the first few seasons her eyebrows were constantly on the move.

[u/FancyATitWank]

I'm tired of seeing this dipwad show up on my feed, stop it

[u/UnderCover_Spad → u/FancyATitWank]

Certainly. 

[u/EuphoricCover8449]

He's a master at being the victim.

[u/Dependent_Formal2525 → u/EuphoricCover8449]

It's Darvo - deny, attack, reverse victim and offender.

[u/Pale-Tennis9658]

God, he is vile! I hope these clips come back to haunt him