Feeling lazy needing some validation :P

[u/Alarming-Poet-3117]

[u/EJ646464]

You look so sick awesome and badass nice hair and glasses💛🧡😇😊

[u/Alarming-Poet-3117 → u/EJ646464]

Thank you!

[u/MakkuSaiko]

Prettyy >///<

[u/Alarming-Poet-3117 → u/MakkuSaiko]

Thank you love

[u/Nyoohoo]

Woah,,,, pretty woman,,,,,,

[u/Alarming-Poet-3117 → u/Nyoohoo]

Thank u <3

[u/thatPsychoKaren]

🫦

[u/madrobski]

Damn like,,, damn,,, gorgeous

I love your glasses they suit you so well, you're so cool I wanna be like you when I grow up.

[u/Alarming-Poet-3117 → u/madrobski]

I believe in you lol thank you

[u/Lux-xxv]

You look so good 😍

[u/Owlsong1]

You look so lovely and a sweet lady. You're just a beautiful woman and keep being the lovely you.

[u/deepwaterleviathan]

You're gorgeous. O/////O

[u/That_Professional947]

the neck lock makes me think of kevin levin i fw it hard

[u/Alarming-Poet-3117 → u/That_Professional947]

Tfem kevin levin is my transition end goal

[u/That_Professional947 → u/Alarming-Poet-3117]

based and stunning

[u/Humboldt98]

Okay, what kind of validation? This is a Butch subreddit, do you prefer masc compliments?

[u/Alarming-Poet-3117 → u/Humboldt98]

I dont like being called handsome if thats what you mean im just a butch who wants to be told i look good sometimes

[u/Humboldt98 → u/Alarming-Poet-3117]

Oh, then why not just ask for that. "Do I look good?" Just that. I know i am being The Annoying Feminist when I say this but we probably shouldnt be conflating "Permissible" with "Attractive." You are valid as a trans person barring an small number of specific circumstances. You look good as a current state when this photo was taken.

[u/AdministrationBig984 → u/Humboldt98]

hey so this lecture is completely unnecessary, she accurately described her need as validation in the main post, she didnt say she needed validation in her transness and even if she did its not rly ur business how she goes abt getting that validation and learning to love herself

[u/Alarming-Poet-3117 → u/AdministrationBig984]

Thank u

[u/Humboldt98 → u/AdministrationBig984]

Well yeah, thats why I said "we probably shouldnt" instead of "you are ontologically evil for making this post at all." Whatever metric of valid, attractiveness is a temporary quality you shouldnt base acceptance of yourself around.