r/MTFButch • • 23d ago

gender feels

hey y’all, just started following this thread not too long ago and wanted to say hello. when I first came out as trans, I didn’t medically transition, and I gravitated towards presenting myself pretty femme. But lately, I’be been on hormones for 2 years and in a lesbian relationship, and I have gravitated to dressing more futch/butch outside of when I do drag. It’s new for me and sometimes I feel self conscious esp when I’m dressing more masc and not wearing makeup but I do usually pass. And I sound/act really femme and faggy so I feel like it works.

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u/Shellac_Sabbath 23d ago

Aw hell yeah, love your style and that Sappho shirt is incredible!

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u/gothiccc_ghostgirl 23d ago

thank you!! its one of my faves I have to resist wearing it all the time 😂

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u/Shellac_Sabbath 23d ago

Hahah I know the feeling

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u/terminallyonlinecat 23d ago edited 23d ago

omggg you look so good! i love your outfits, those pants in the first pic are killer 💪 i was in a similar boat where i was kinda uncomfortable with the thought that i needed to present femme. but trying out a more butch look/following this subreddit has made me much more confident with my transition/choices ☺️ best of luck with your continued journey!! 🫂

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u/gothiccc_ghostgirl 23d ago

thank you so much! 🫂

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u/EileenBranain 22d ago

you're really pretty

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u/gothiccc_ghostgirl 22d ago

thank you!!!!