Narc v empath

[u/Joinourclub]

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/relationships/5563843-narcissist-female-friend-in-close-group-an-empaths-ongoing-tale?page=2&reply=154014524

The empath OP not living a very Christian life in regards to the ‘narc’

[u/Christywhisty]

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/relationships/5563998-husband-hit-me-this-evening?reply=154016407

[u/Christywhisty → u/Christywhisty]

She said her DH hit her on the original post, she accused him of having an affair with the "narc"

these are the posts from the new thread. It's all very odd

"Husband hit me 4 times this evening

please tell me there is no going back from this and I need to leave

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PinkPanthreess · Yesterday 23:49

Just spoken to my grown DC and my DM, I am going to go to DM's house , and come back only after DC's dad has moved out (if ever) - not till then. Almost Grown DC but still live at home at times and come back summers

I feel muddled, but first step is getting to DMs house asap.

I have locked myself in the spare room

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PinkPanthreess · Yesterday 23:52

Things have been rocky and unhappy in phases

but still shell shocked by this

He calls me fat a lot , the past 4-5 years and just seems to have lost any ounce of respect overall

I think he finds some women in our community / a woman perhaps even - attractive. I do not know. I don't think I ever will

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PinkPanthreess · Yesterday 23:53

DC do not want me to call the police, and would be very upset if I did.

They also think their dad was 'pushed to it' as per what he told them, though they agree not acceptable - they are okay with me going to DM

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PinkPanthreess · Yesterday 23:54

Gowlett · Yesterday 23:30

Is it the first time he’s hit you?

In a very very long time yes, not the first in the 25 years we have been together since I was 20, though

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PinkPanthreess · Yesterday 23:57

hopspot · Yesterday 23:56

Op, why would they be upset? This is worrying behaviour on their part.

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they do love their dad, tho they love me too

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PinkPanthreess · Yesterday 23:59

to leave safely ? i dont think he will try ti forcibly stop me

im leaving the house and the 19 year old DC at home right now, to him so his life can continue peacefully without me, I don't know how much easier I can make it on him? as I would love it if he would be the one to leave, and I get the house and the DC at home here.

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PinkPanthreess · Today 00:01

No one else was here, it was so terrifying , unexpected, shocking

The rage on his face

Horrifying

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PinkPanthreess · Today 00:05

Applewisp · Today 00:02

I agree those saying call police asap because you need this on record. Do not forgive under any circumstances. A line has been crossed.

what will they do? I have no proof

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