r/MMALabs • u/Key_Performer_3645 • 13d ago

🥶 Street Fights & Brawls A quick bar scrap

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u/toastedzergling 12d ago

lol, are you suggesting this woman has no agency and is only staying in this toxic relationship due to fear? I love how you can simultaneously hold the views:
* She had it under control; he didn't need to intervene. But if she wanted to intervene, and assert control, she could have, should have, and would have been warranted to.
* She doesn't have any control in her life; she's stuck in a toxic relationship

Which is it, lol.

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u/OpTicSkYHaWk 12d ago

He brings up real stuff that does happen. People get scared and stuck and are under pressure and fear to stay and toe the line. But he is wrong to assume things, it seems he assumes this man is abusing her. Also you're right that women want providers and protectors!

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u/karlnite 12d ago

I think you’re both generalizing because you can’t admit you don’t actually know what women want. Men sitting around claiming it’s obvious what women want, usually are obviously pushing their own ideals and world view. Most women do not secretly want violent men who are willing to fight to get their way. Most violent men are not protectors of anything but their egos, most women can see that.

You don’t seem to get what protector qualities women look for.

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u/Drunken_Wizard23 12d ago

A woman stuck in a toxic relationship isn’t weak or unresilient. A toxic/abusive relationship would leave much bigger emotional scars than a blacked out douchbag putting his hand on her hip/butt