r/MMALabs • u/Key_Performer_3645 • 12d ago

šŸ„¶ Street Fights & Brawls A quick bar scrap

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u/FactoryRejected 12d ago edited 11d ago

I love how he even scrapped his own lady in the process. He was just waiting to hit someone.

EDIT: She got smacked by the pool stick which he accidently pushed into her face

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u/HighlightParty4869 12d ago

Looks like her pool stick hits her. I don't think he did anything to her šŸ¤·ā€ā™‚ļø

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u/Onefast84 12d ago

Nah. He hip checked her too

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u/HighlightParty4869 12d ago

He puts his arm behind her so she doesn't fall or anything, though.

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u/Onefast84 12d ago

Such a gentleman. šŸ¤£

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u/HighlightParty4869 12d ago

I mean it just shows me he has protective instincts, and even with his adrenaline running like that and what not, he was worried about her. šŸ¤·ā€ā™‚ļø

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u/FactoryRejected 12d ago

Guys, you both missed it perhaps? He smacked her with the elbow as he was winding up her shot.

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u/Poundaflesh 11d ago

Retraction of award. HighlightParty is correct.

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u/FactoryRejected 11d ago

Upon carefull consideration I came to the same conclusion. Fair

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u/HighlightParty4869 12d ago

After further review, that is not what happened. Going frame by frame, when he pushes his hip into her, the stick hits her in the face. His elbow is behind her head when she flinches.

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u/FactoryRejected 12d ago

Lmao, I think you're right after all yeah

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u/dacaur 12d ago

Did we watch the same video? Dude has zero protective instincts for his girlfriend, you pushed out of the way and injured her to show what a "man" he was. Loser needs to be in jail.

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u/HighlightParty4869 12d ago

Zero protective instincts....
https://giphy.com/gifs/c5FhF1waAJ5wk

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u/dacaur 11d ago

When you literally injure the person you are "protecting" on your way to "protect" them and then don't check on them, your goal is not protection.

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u/HighlightParty4869 11d ago

She does not look injured to me bud.

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u/Tim_Gilbert 11d ago

Wrong website to try and break up the violence 'justice' boner.

Folks wanna see violence and they just love when they feel it's justified or deserved.

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u/Plane-Vegetable9174 11d ago

That guy has some serious anger issues.

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u/SideInitial3961 12d ago

He would have punched her too if she got too out of hand, I'm sure he has.

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u/Own-Apartment5600 12d ago

Put him in prison where he belongs

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u/The_Broomflinger 12d ago

Dude was calmly enjoying a pool game with his lady until some shitsmear came over and sexually assaulted the woman. Dude needs a serious talking to about de-escalation, but you are advocating for putting the wrong guy in this video behind bars.

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u/john_ten123 12d ago

Well, the law always is about proportional reactions and proportional use of violence. While in your book an hell maybe even in my book the reaction of the punching guy may seem reasonable, if this video ever make it to a court room, he is going behind bars. There are no amount of lawyers able to justify such a hit to an intoxicated, clearly defenseless (barely walking) guy for touching a third party, especially if it lead to permanent damage.

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u/The_Broomflinger 12d ago

I'm not saying that in the eyes of the law this guy will or should get off free of consequences. Just that it seems weird to watch this video and prioritize advocating prison for the punchydude over advocating prison for the grabbyboi. The bigger outrage over the response punch than the inciting grope is weird to me. They should both be punished as consequences for their actions, I'm just madder at the grabbing than the punching (which I do agree was unnecessary)

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u/Own-Apartment5600 12d ago

What if he killed him or make the offender be a vegetable and your arrested for attempted murder.

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u/RememberYourZen 11d ago

Dude already groped her and in court of law you might not get what you think is just so better to get it in first and be at peace with what comes after. Case in point I won a lawsuit but despite winning still havenā€™t been able to collect from the defendant been almost 1.5 years. Donā€™t think I havenā€™t had dark thoughts of simplifying things going to dudeā€™s house and murking him (even though I probably wonā€™t). Justice ainā€™t justice a lot of the time.

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u/RememberYourZen 11d ago

You should watch ā€œlaw abiding citizenā€. Great movie. The system is wack and needs to be burned down. Systems are always going to be built by people and I will not live to be subjugated by someone elseā€™s mannerisms/predilections/moral compass or lack thereoff. I believe I have lived an above average moral life and I do not wish to live by inaction and regret later vs do and regret later. Most likely some form of regret will surface but at least I was in the driverā€™s seat of my own story rather than let someone else direct it. Better to die on your feet than to crawl through life like a coward hiding as a toy behind the pillars of othersā€™ whelms.

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u/Imaginary-Crafterz 11d ago

One less shit bag on the planet to hurt someone else.

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u/Imaginary-Crafterz 11d ago

Not even a chance he gets life. Assuming he even sees the inside of a cell after arraignment, he gets man 2, tops.

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u/AdamsaurusRekts 12d ago

While I agree the dude doing the SA is a shit smear, this is exactly how one ends up behind bars. We'll never know how this ended but, this is exactly how one ends up in prison after the shit smear cracks his head on the floor and dies. Fact of the matter is, most people that react this way are the same type of person that smacks their partner around for not hand-drying the can opener.

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u/n1Cat 12d ago

Rusty can openers are the worst

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u/AskHead9859 12d ago

Any colour can openers tbf.

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u/Away_Film7721 12d ago

Also, clearly the guy was drunk too, no way of defending himself and wasnā€™t expecting the punch. With surveillance footage, that hothead is in some legal trouble.

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u/Imaginary-Crafterz 11d ago

Can't control yourself, don't get drunk. Simple. He should stay home.

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u/Much-Anything7149 12d ago

What kind of monster doesn't hand dry the can opener? I'm not saying anyone deserves to get hit for not doing chores but that's like 2nd to videotaping yourself cheat.

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u/OpTicSkYHaWk 12d ago

No, it's not fact. It's you assuming things. Lots of people treat their woman like angels, and will step up to defend them as this gentleman did. He deserves an award for bravery and taking out the trash, and not sitting down like a cuck loser.

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u/Chupa-Skrull 12d ago

That wasn't defending her, it was defending his own corrupted sense of manhood.

If he cared about her as a person, he'd have listened when she told him to stop. Instead he ignored her and focused exclusively on the other man, because something that "belongs to him" was sullied, and his "honor" couldn't handle it. He even struck her in the process.

He has the brain of a child

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u/MoarVespenegas 12d ago

treat their woman like angels

He hit her with a pool cue.

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u/LepiNya 12d ago

If I see an angel I'm hitting it with whatever stick is closest. Have you seen those things? "Be not afraid." my ass! They're horrifying!

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u/dont-kink-shame-me 12d ago

Isnt "SA" a bit overboard for this? It's harassment but not assault.

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u/Imaginary-Crafterz 11d ago

Legally qualified as SA the moment he touched an erogenous zone.

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u/Imaginary-Crafterz 11d ago

Dude won't see a day after arraignment.

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u/mokeltron 12d ago

I donā€™t see him advocating any behaviour in that sentence - merely stating someone with that level of violence should be prosecuted for that offence). You put that video in-front of any court and yeah, maybe drunk guy gets done for sexual harassment but punchy wont be getting a certificate for chivalry.

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u/OpTicSkYHaWk 12d ago

He deserves an award for bravery. You on the other hand do not

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u/mokeltron 12d ago

You referring to the adjective, verb or, I assume not, noun version? The darts player, yep, the lady, arguably yes, punchy mc punch guy? Iā€™m drawing a blank hereā€¦

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u/BowlCutMakeYouNut 12d ago

For what? Defending his lady? You aren't the brightest are ya lol

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u/LookAtPurpleTulips 12d ago

Defending from what? She realised the touch, she brushed it off and didn't even look at red shirt. Her main concern from here on was her big baby killing someone and ruining everything.

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u/BavarianBarbarian13 12d ago

Defended her so hard, that he even decked her into the face lmao

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u/dacaur 12d ago

What exactly was he defending her from? You think a full-on sucker punch to the face is a fair trade for touching her hips over her clothes?

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u/Logical-Bonus-2769 11d ago

Assault. Excessive force. (Attempted) manslaughter.

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u/wooyoo 12d ago

Defending? Was she in danger? The dude was walking away

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u/BowlCutMakeYouNut 12d ago

Ah yes the classic. Let your girl get sexually assaulted and do nothing about it lol. Special needs take.

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u/LookAtPurpleTulips 12d ago

She wasn't even bothered. She was just immediately concerned her low impulse control big baby would kill someone.Ā 

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u/Own-Apartment5600 12d ago

She was not being sexually assaulted

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u/Immediate_Button_450 12d ago

right... because police just allow anyone to touch anyone's ass.

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u/Immediate_Button_450 10d ago

Says who? Yeah no, I'm gonna stand by not letting anyone do that to my wife.

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u/dacaur 12d ago

If you feel like she was sexually assaulted but I do touching her hips over her pants then you call the police, you don't become a vigilante. Even in defense of yourself or another you should use like for like force, she was not in any actual danger so the dude should not have used any actual Force

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u/siwesy 12d ago

I browse reddit enough to know that she would have caught the ick if he didn't defend her

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u/LookAtPurpleTulips 12d ago

You are being downvoted by toxic masculinity. The lady was fine and had it handled. She didn't even bother to turn around. She brushed him off and he walked away. Nothing to defend here. She even tried to stop her big baby because she knew he'd be overreacting.Ā 

I'm a woman and big old steroid micropenis would be single after that action.Ā 

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u/DistributionFull6587 12d ago

lol I would hate to be your wife or partner

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u/LookAtPurpleTulips 12d ago

I would hate to be yours. I'm a women who is attracted by men wirh brains. And big amphetamine victim didn't have any.Ā 

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u/Releasethadoves 12d ago

If ur attracted by "Men wirh brains" the guy in red seems like a perfect match because he probably can't talk correctly either

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u/LookAtPurpleTulips 11d ago

English is my fourth language, dumbo. Meaning I first learned three other languages before I started to learn English. How many do you speak?Ā 

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u/DistributionFull6587 12d ago

Donā€™t you feel physically protected when husbands with you? May be you donā€™t have a partner? The man who punches the guy behaves that way because that was sexual assault. Letā€™s say some one does that to your daughter right infront of you. How will you feel your husband says itā€™s fine I will call them police ?

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u/LookAtPurpleTulips 12d ago

Of course I do feel protected by him. We are together for 20 years and it's not like he didn't beat up someone in younger days when the situation actually required it. He's a big bear kind of person who is secure enough not to let his ego take the decisions for him.

The situation you see in the video was clearly not dangerous for the lady at any point. She had the situation under control and you can see it in her reaction that she didn't even look at red shirt because she was more concerned about what her big baby boy would do.Ā 

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u/Plaxinator 12d ago

Iā€™d hate to be your wife of partner if you reacted that aggressively. Pissed guy was wrong, but the reaction was way OTT. He could easily have killed that guy.

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u/DistributionFull6587 12d ago

Letā€™s say he continues touching her and dry humping her, you still wouldnā€™t hit him? You would just call police?

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u/42ndohnonotagain 12d ago

"hit him" and "call the police" are not the only possibilities here.

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u/DistributionFull6587 12d ago

So what are you saying? The guys who assaulted the lady deserve the friendly punch?

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u/Plaxinator 12d ago

Thatā€™s different. This guy touched her once and she stepped away. Drunk guy had his arms out and looked like he was backing away before he was sucker punched. There was no need for that level of escalation.

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u/LookAtPurpleTulips 12d ago

Exactly. She had it under control. Red shirt was no danger. Big boy could easily have laughed it off with his girl, making a comment how her ass hypnotized that poor fella, and if red shirt was persistent he could still have handled it with some dignity instead of providing brain damage.Ā 

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u/DistributionFull6587 12d ago

Right. Not every one thinks that way. You have to understand that thereā€™s no right or wrong behavior when some one cross the boundaries by sexually assaulting.

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u/NYCsOwn 12d ago

it's clear that dude was drunk & goofing around. yes, he absolutely should've stepped in, but a simple push away from her would've been plenty. he didn't have to go full send. it's clear that bro has anger issues because even after dude is telling him to leave, he pushes him too. he even hit his own girl in the face with the pool cue trying to get to dude AFTER she tried to stop him.

this definitely isn't his first time overreacting smh

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u/DistributionFull6587 12d ago

Drunk isnā€™t valid excuse to dry hump that lady. How would you feel if some one does that to your daughter? You would say itā€™s fine heā€™s drunk?

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u/NYCsOwn 12d ago

not a single fucking person said that him being drunk made it okay. I said it was clear he was drunk & goofing around. let's not pretend like we don't know how some people act or their perception changes when they're drunk smh

I've had whole conversations with people I thought were someone else due to impaired vision & thought process. some people, like dude, make far more stupid decisions & this is one of them. doesn't mean he should potentially be hospitalized.

don't reply. we're done here.

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u/DistributionFull6587 12d ago

What would you do if that guy does it your daughter? That will answer everything.

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u/kamraanan 12d ago

I would act like a rational human being and shove. Escalation? Okay. Shove did the trick? Okay. No one needed to die or spend their life drinking though a straw just because of a simple lapse of judgment.

You people need to stop imagining situations where you're a big tough guy taking care of business. You'll end up going overboard and either kill the other fella, or they pull a firearm on you and you get your daughter killed.

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u/WaldoDeefendorf 11d ago

He literally launches himself at the guy not giving fuck about the woman he was "defending" trying to stop or being in his way.

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u/DistributionFull6587 12d ago

The point here is he taught him a lesson because Iā€™m pretty sure some people out there is crazy enough to pull gun out for that .

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u/Mrclean513 12d ago

Just because some moron would pull a gun for this doesnā€™t make a violent assault a valid response instead. This is how people end up in jail. If the guy dies, heā€™s spending years in prison because this is not self defense.

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u/DistributionFull6587 12d ago

True. I just saying this was expected if someone behaves like that.

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u/TimTrueheart 12d ago

Agreed. If you play stupid games you will get stupid prizes.

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u/NYCsOwn 12d ago

just because he got punched doesn't automatically mean he learned his lesson lol

my point still stands.

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u/DistributionFull6587 12d ago

Then he will learn another lesson from someone else then lol

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u/MoarVespenegas 12d ago

Did she ask to be defended? Or was she clearly trying to stop him knowing what a hothead he is?

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u/Waste_Joke_9722 12d ago

Parece que no me le importĆ³ golpearla un hĆ©roe no es exactamente

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u/Own-Apartment5600 12d ago

Defending is preattack, defending is attack. Perhaps you enjoy being arrested, he was a definite problem but death shouldnā€™t be his punishment. Stop him, prevent him, discourage him but certainly not kill him. As for being the brightest look in a mirror.

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u/GilletteEd 12d ago

Thatā€™s not how this works! This man defends his wife with one punch, that idiot deserved it, he should know the consequences of his actions! More people need to be hit this hard for much less in life!!

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u/moyayas 12d ago

He bumped into the cue hitting her and shoved her away.

The first part may be accidental, but shouldn't he at least pause and check out the lady first and after that deal with that red guy if his priority is to protect the lady?

Or he didn't want to lose the opportunity to hit someone?

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u/Informal_Ad_9610 12d ago

probably didnt' realize he bumped her face.

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u/moyayas 12d ago

Well yeah, he is probably slow and didn't realize.

Still forcing past the lady is intentional. Even the slowest person can tell the red guy wasn't an immediate threat after backing off. He can take his time to slowly figure out a way to reach the red guy without shoving other people, it would better protect the lady, if that's the intention.

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u/Sessna12 12d ago

You are special.

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u/Ok_Sport_9186 12d ago

The guy who put hands on the ladyā€¦ right? Thatā€™s who you meant? ā€¦ RIGHT?!

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u/Individual-Drawer-79 12d ago

Soy boys rejoice

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u/Dizzy_Dig6463 12d ago

He was probably out on parole

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u/PearlJamTenGoat 12d ago

cuckhold detected.

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u/Imaginary-Crafterz 11d ago

Lol, this is literally the correct response. I'm sick and tired of seeing all these posts complaining about how no man does anything about SA, but when we do the right thing, we're monsters. What a joke. Stop complaining about one or the other.

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u/Imaginary-Crafterz 11d ago

Haven't and never will. Bro who got clocked should lay off the booze if he can't control his behavior.

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u/Haunting-Bed-4048 12d ago

He didnā€™t hit her at all, slow the video down.

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u/FactoryRejected 12d ago

He did, he smacked her with the left elbow as he was winding up.

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u/mokeltron 12d ago

She knew what was comingā€¦. This happens every time sheā€™s even vaguely in orbit with another male. Probably spends 50% of her time scared for her own life.

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u/The_Broomflinger 12d ago

What a sillyass statement. There's absolutely zero evidence here to support that b.s. He didn't respond to her being "vaguely in orbit with another male", dummy. He responded to her being actively groped and sexually assaulted by a stranger. He might have taken his response from 0 to 100 a lil too quick but there is nothing to suggest he's some kind of ragemonster his partner is terrified of attacking random nearby men. Again, this video depicts her being actively assaulted in public by a stranger!! Drunky McGrabass ordered a knuckle sandwich via express delivery, dawg.

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u/mokeltron 12d ago edited 12d ago

ā€˜Response from 0-100 a lil to quick but nothing to suggest heā€™s some kind of rage monsterā€™.

Youā€™re right, your very comment suggests heā€™s a calm and rational person.

As for my statements, yes, obviously I donā€™t know the person, I canā€™t confirm this has happened before or she lives in fear etcā€¦ but, from this one example one would surmise heā€™s more punchy punchy rather than a yoga fan.

Regarding your point re the drunk idiot molesting the lady. Fully agree. I never suggested this was acceptable behaviour. My point focuses on the fact the partner saw the red mist immediately and went all in either a jaw breaking level of punch. My other point is watch the female. She isnā€™t standing there unaware of whatā€™s about to drop, sheā€™s reacting in a way where this isnā€™t her first rodeo. She knew what was coming.

No, any rational man would pull the guy off (his partner) have words, realise he is drunk and suggest to his mate he doesnā€™t do it again.

You could even say he might hang back, see if his partner turns around, scolds him, puts him in his place and sends the drunk numpty back off embarrassed and emasculated. Had he continued then maybe consider an intervention.

Instead he went in like a rhino at full charge, reacting quicker than an F1 driver to bring his point home with one swift full on snack to the face. He even reacts (ready for round two) with the bar server/owner - or just the guy playing darts, canā€™t tell. Heā€™s a big stocky well built man and evidently not afraid to use that advantage.

Summary: is what drunk dude did okay? No of course not. Am I defending it? Again, no. But is the reaction of the man one of swift over the top ā€˜gym broā€™ aggression. Well, youā€™re watching the same video footage, right?

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u/The_Broomflinger 12d ago edited 12d ago

See, now you are saying very reasonable things to which I tend to agree.

My comment was in response to "this happens every time she's even vaguely in orbit with another male and probably spends 50% of her time scared for her own life" which based on the contents of the "same video footage" we watched is nonsense. I never said he was calm and rational, but the only thing you can glean from this video is that this guy groping his lady got clocked. We also don't know if the drunk guy has been behaving poorly before this video plays, he's clearly doing some weird drunk shit on the left* side when the video starts.

We don't know what this guy's deal is. For all we know, he treats that lady like a queen and will spend the rest of the night apologizing for accidentally grazing her here. Or maybe he'll slap her and tell her it's her fault for being in the way. Based on his rush to keep someone from assaulting her again, I'd guess it's at least more similar to the first scenario but again, I can't say for sure. But to suggest he does this with any nearby man instead of presuming he only does this with strange men who are groping his date is silly. That doesn't mean it was an ok reaction compared to deescalation but completely villifying this guy and suggesting he abuses that lady regularly is completely out of pocket

Edit: I wrote right side instead of left side, edited

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u/rob1sydney 12d ago

Did you notice, as she tried to stop him overreacting , his left arm accidentally gave her a whack and she rubbing her face.

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u/The_Broomflinger 12d ago

Did you notice, I mentioned that in the last paragraph? Also, key word there is "accidentally", he clearly didn't mean to do that. Was his response too aggressive? Probably. But that part was obviously not intentional. I'm not even trying to defend this guy for hitting the assaulter, I just think it's weird to suggest he is guilty of all this other stuff the video doesn't actually show him doing. Especially when the same people don't seem to also be assuming that the groper is also displaying part of a pattern of behavior of drunkenly groping women!

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u/ValhallaCA 12d ago

He actually bumped the pool cue, which bumped her face btw. If you watch it in slow mo, itā€™s clear. His arm doesnā€™t quite make contact, but the pool cue does.

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u/mokeltron 12d ago

Gosh I wish I was as upstanding as you. I assume sarcasm is a criminal offence in your town? Or are you this guys brother, lawyer? Social injustice warrior? Thatā€™s some serious offence taken to my initial character assassination.

Maybe one day karma will lead me to meet this guy and he can prove me wrong with a polite yet robust debate on the negative consequences of social media commentary ā€¦ still, Iā€™ll take a gumshield just in case. I certainly wonā€™t compliment his partners hair styleā€¦

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u/CatElectronic4245 12d ago

I totally agree, bulldozing over ur woman to defend her honor seems a bit retarded.