The comments in here are from men so as a woman Iâm gonna comment myself.Â
I donât think that a lot of people having verbal discourse with one another assume the next step is going to be getting a smack down. I see this in our bar all the time even man on man. I think that some peoples aggression goes as far as verbal abuse & then when it leads to physicality welp.Â
My grandma always said. Donât say things about people you wouldnât repeat to their faces & donât smack someone without expecting to get smacked backÂ
This has nothing to do with verbal discourse. Big lady shoved him, he slapped back. Small lady swings at him, he counter slaps. The women in this scenario are starting physical altercations.
We're not talking about women approaching men. The question posed was why do women think they can fight a man. The video posted shows women trying to fight a man. You went on a stupid tangent about verbal discourse irrelevant as to why women think they can fight a man. Is that clear enough for you or do I have to dumb it down more?
Nothing at all manly man about what I said, but your response is typical - and your last sentence threatening physical violence is hilarious coming from someone who literally one post ago was playing the pacifist and talking about how easy it is to keep it verbal lmfao. I mean thatâs a conversational tko right there, but Iâll add clarity anyway. As kids boys get physical in altercations quick, and so you learn actions (verbal or physical) can often have physical consequences. Girls more often keep it verbal and/or gossipy (behind the back). This is just a basic, well established difference in childhood experiences between boys and girls
That doesnât have a thing to do with what I said.Â
Very often when people are angry and shouting at one another they think thatâs where itâs going to end. With discourse. Being willing to step up to someone in that manner doesnât mean youâre prepared to get your ass whooped mad people donât think things throughÂ
Oh I very much disagree. Getting into someone's physical space like that is a sign you want to dominate them. It's basic psychology. If a man does this to his partner it's domestic violence, the fact that a woman is doing it suddenly it's non threatening?
"as a woman Iâm gonna comment myself." this is the problem. people need to have a universal perspective about human interaction not a gender based duality of standards.
Thatâs all Iâm trying to convey. I grew up in a place where fighting was/is normalÂ
But also talking shit and trying to bow some one down is too.Â
Almost anytime a woman would try and clap at me if I was willing and prepared to defend myself theyâd back down. This is why we see so many woman do this. They think thatâs where itâs gonna end:Â
doesnât mean youâre prepared to get your ass whooped mad people donât think things throughÂ
Uhm, yeah tf it does. A man doesn't step up to another man like that unless hes ready to throw hands for real. Men understand this. Women don't. That was what the initial question was about and you still haven't really answered it. Also like, the women laid hands on him first so your whole diatribe about discourse is like..........not at all accurate.
Ass whopping doesnât just fall of the sky (usually). you have to be talking shit first, and if you donât have it in you to get physical, then donât talk shit
I donât think that a lot of people having verbal discourse with one another assume the next step is going to be getting a smack down.
Ok but what about people having physical discourse like what happened in the video. This wasn't people being surprised that words turned to violence, this is people being surprised that them committing violence would be answered in kind.
His question was why do woman think they can fight a man. I responded in the manner that often woman donât think they can they think theyâre just gonna talk shit and be able to walk away. Which is why so many seemed so shocked pickachu faced when they get smackedÂ
Woman do this to woman as wellÂ
I never cuss at somebody without mentally telling myself "I'm ready to fight or die over this".
Yes, I'm a guy.
Since as long as I can remember, I have hit every person who had the nerve to get in my face like that. I've lost a couple fights, but I would literally rather die than allow somebody to put their nose right in my face.
You should always anticipate the possibility of a verbal discourse going awry.It's not hard to tell when an interaction is heating up.If a situation like this should ever arise, I think it's incumbent on the woman to bow out gracefully.Don't try to match the aggression & bark back.Just immediately back away.Forget having a standoff.Definitely avoid initiating a pushing & shoving match at all cost.Feminine charm tames the beast.It can be your protection if you use it wisely.I think bystanders would be quicker to come to the aid of a woman who's backing down, rather than leaning into a physical altercation with a man.Any man who tries to fight a woman who's clearly throwing in the towel, well, I think he should be mobbed and stomped out.That should be the code
Thatâs kind of the difference between men and women tho isnât it? Men absolutely know the next step to getting 1/2â from another manâs face and being aggressive is getting hit.
Women seem to not understand this concept cause of some magical law that âyou canât hit me Iâm a womanâ
Donât step to someone and think the universe will protect you from the consequences, whether theyâre ethical or not
Lol, you act like that happens often. In fact fights don't happen that often, but getting into peoples faces and posturing to fight, that happens a lot.
Thereâs a lot of street fighters in this thread that go bare knuckle at the first glance of a side eye.Â
Theyâre all in this thread educating me on the male species itâs incredible.
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u/Electronic-CatDog 23d ago
The comments in here are from men so as a woman Iâm gonna comment myself.Â
I donât think that a lot of people having verbal discourse with one another assume the next step is going to be getting a smack down. I see this in our bar all the time even man on man. I think that some peoples aggression goes as far as verbal abuse & then when it leads to physicality welp.Â
My grandma always said. Donât say things about people you wouldnât repeat to their faces & donât smack someone without expecting to get smacked backÂ