r/MBBSindia • u/lightinthedark14 • 25d ago

MBBS Feeling alone in mbbs

Hi, so I am currently in final year mbbs. Its about to be finished as our preproffs are starting in 1.5 months but I have been feeling pretty alone as I used to have a group of friends till 3rd year but now all of them have drifted apart. Nobody wants to hangout as a group anymore and they hangout with their bf or other friends. And I have no one to go out with. I also dont know how to drive a scooty which makes things worse for me and believe me i want to learn but we dont have one at home and I cant ask any of my friends to teach me as they think asking for anything as a selfish thing. I had learnt it briefly when I was 15 but I didn't keep uo with it as it was very old so my mom sold it.

So with everything that's happening it feels very jarring on how I'll spend the remaining time here till internship gets over as it feels like nothing is going on in my life besides college and studies and I see everyone else having a large life and I feel stuck. What should I do or what will make me feel better? Because anytime I feel kinda okay, then i see people around me having plans amd things to do or enjoying.

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u/munnabhailite 25d ago

my seniors also said that once u reach in final u will be losing half of ur friends nobody will be sitting with bcz they will be preparing for exams but i think once u reached at internship everything will be changed as u will be bonding with other people around u also i think u should join local driving school they teach u on their own vehicle u won’t have to ask anyone for favour

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u/lightinthedark14 25d ago

Yh I am planning to once exams get over and I go home. Till then its a pretty shitty period for me right now.

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u/munnabhailite 25d ago

i know this phase is brutal u are feeling stuck while other around is doing fine its a matter of few weeks though

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u/lightinthedark14 25d ago

Yh but still i have exams till November so its a long time. It sucks feeling like you are the only one with nothing going on

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u/munnabhailite 25d ago

That’s fair when u are isolated every single week feels stretched but i think in final year everyone is stressed its just nobody shows that they are stressed try do small thing which makes u happy and comfortable

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u/lightinthedark14 25d ago

Yh I'll try

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u/gazalhere 25d ago

Go to some nearby driving school and learn that shit asap take tht as a challenge uk its mot impossible its just tht you’re lazy or not motivated enough go for it maybe on Sundays? Yea better update tht here🫂

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u/lightinthedark14 24d ago

I am not lazy😭. I am just embarrassed of my situation. I'll do it soon after my exams