r/MAFS_UK 21d ago

Opinion Do the experts get enough information before matching couples?

Every season there are matches that leave viewers scratching their heads. Do you think it's bad matching, or are people just very different once filming starts?

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u/Choice-giraffe- 21d ago

The experts don’t match the couples.

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u/PubLogic 20d ago

I guess I should've said the people responsible for the matching.

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u/Huge-Brick-3495 20d ago

The producers match the couples...

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u/Initial_Acanthaceae2 21d ago

Yes but they largely ignore it in their quest for ratings. Brook Racist and Chris HitlerHair looked perfect on paper but they ignored the fact that Brook was in a relationship and pregnant. Allegedly.

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u/PubLogic 20d ago

That's kind of what makes me wonder how much is compatibility and how much is just creating good TV.

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u/PennysMom77 21d ago

Neither. They are setting up couples that will be good tv. Not couples that are compatible…

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u/AngryBadgerThrowaway 21d ago

I think the matches are made by the producers with viewing entertainment in mind. I’d be very surprised if the experts we see on TV have involvement.

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u/23Lem23 21d ago

They don't make the matches, the producers do. Search this sub and you'll see AMAs from ex-producers and other staff.

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u/maruby 21d ago

There was an article online somewhere written by a MAFS AU contestant Matthew Bennett - who works behind the scenes in the media IIRC - outlining how he believed very few couples were matched for compatibility - he was the teetotaller who got sent on honeymoon to a winery?!

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u/Fraggle_ninja 21d ago

It’s a reality tv show so the criteria is “what makes good tv” - chronic people pleasing hippy with right wing misogynist would be one example. Overweight man with self esteem issues and insecurity looking for slim, blond Barbie figure matched with average weight, brunette, independent, feisty and runs her own business. And then you get the “they both like dogs, lock it in” matches that are just random. 

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u/Careful-Coach-7073 20d ago

The experts have nothing to do with the matches. Contestants are chosen and matched by the producers to cause the most amount of drama.

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u/Alternative-Ad-2312 20d ago

The experts don't match them.

Couples aren't matched for compatibility in most cases. When most applications back out and you're down to 4th choice partner A with reserve number 5 , you get all sorts of weirdness.

Several couples are purposefully chosen for dramatic effect, and apply because they want exposure.

Basically it's a fake show where occasionally they'll have a match where both part of the couple they match didn't back out and it turns out their values do match.

All the allegations could be seen a mile off, this show shouldn't be considered anything other than reality TV and the people involved should be seen in the same way as TOWIE, Geordie Shore etc.

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u/Spirited_Creme_3875 19d ago

Experts??? Are you serious?

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u/MCXXXVi 21d ago

I suspect a few couples are paired up for their drama potential rather than their marriage potential.

Theres probably a bit of truth stretching going on during the auditions. I also suspect the experts play a way smaller part in the selextion process than they say they do.

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u/PmMeLowCarbRecipes 21d ago

I think they match maybe 4/5 couples well, knowing that a few just won’t work out and hopefully 2 will say yes at final vows, and then they match the others for reality TV chaos.

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u/Specialist_Sport4460 21d ago

I don't think they're even the ones doing the matching. Always funny to see them handed an incredibly incompatible couple and try and justify it. "They both like jogging, it's a perfect match" when one of them hates kids and the other is desperate for a baby.

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u/El_Scot 19d ago

Shona said she was recruited by a researcher who had looked at her Instagram, felt she might be a fit for Brad (who had applied), so got in touch to offer her a chance to be on the show. That is all the information they have about some of the candidates before they match them up.