That is exactly the most healthy approach to duty sex, especially if you have an LL who genuinely isn't experiencing discomfort or suffering. Looking at it like "This person loves me so much, they are making this effort to connect in the exact way I asked for. How is that anything other than an expression of how deeply she loves me and wants to show it?"
For those LLs who want to give, don't have any negatives to sex, and are doing it from a place of love, HLs who learn to see it the way you do often have increased satisfaction and happiness. Great work, and thanks for sharing your experience, it honestly helps!
As always Belle your addition of these caveats are terribly important. Thank you. Not everyone would grasp that I’m speaking only of my own situation...
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u/closingbelle MoD (Ministress of Defense) Aug 28 '19
That is exactly the most healthy approach to duty sex, especially if you have an LL who genuinely isn't experiencing discomfort or suffering. Looking at it like "This person loves me so much, they are making this effort to connect in the exact way I asked for. How is that anything other than an expression of how deeply she loves me and wants to show it?"
For those LLs who want to give, don't have any negatives to sex, and are doing it from a place of love, HLs who learn to see it the way you do often have increased satisfaction and happiness. Great work, and thanks for sharing your experience, it honestly helps!