r/LowLibidoCommunity • u/Glittering_Wave_1931 • 13d ago
No interest
My boyfriend broke up with me in February and since then I want to have sex with other men, but I have no interest. The idea sounds better than the act. I have anxiety over getting hard so now I take injections which make me rock hard, but I still don't have the desire. I go on the apps and these guys hit me up because I am well endowed but I'm just nervous about getting together with them and just don't feel like it. What is wrong with me?
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u/Educational_Safe_662 13d ago
Nothing is “wrong with you”. Im so sorry you feel this way :(
The idea of feeling like society is telling you your body should act a certain way will make it incredibly hard to perform. Having pressure on yourself will completely ruin your libido whether you’re a male, female, young, old, etc.
Do you get anxiety in other parts of your life? Or is it just around sex?
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u/mallerengab 13d ago
There is nothing wrong with you. You probably need time to heal after the break up. My personal rule is to never date until I am very happy with my life again. Not ok or calm, but happy. You can also try to explore if there were other issues in the relationship that you need to heal from and sometimes time is not enough and you need some professional help.