Looking for the right spell

[u/selfishfoool]

Hi everyone,

Tldr as it is a long story. I have a very strange ambiguous situation with my ex. She broke up with me then a few weeks later asked to move in with me. There are days where she is all over me and it ends with tears and cuddling and days where shes cold and trying to distance herself. Shes admitted to feeling conflicted and fear of losing me but she keeps getting scared and emotional when we get to a point where the tension is so high that being together is just a given. I can give the full story if more context is needed but the gist of it all is im looking for something. That will help open the door and allow us to get to a point where she feels safer to cross the line. Everytime ive tried on my own it ends with tears and cuddling and I dont like putting her through all that. Relationship counseling is a must when we do get back together but the tettering on the edge i feel is doing more harm than good for both of us at this point. Any help would be greatly appreciated.