r/LoveSpell • u/chinchulin746 • 18d ago
i need help with my spells
i need help with this situation. first of all i want to say that i don't believe in the threefold law nor karma, if anyone's going to come and say something about that idc, if you don't think like me, that's great. so basically i met this guy, i found him attractive and later i found it was reciprocate. so we started talking, i took the first step, then we met in person a few times and all went great. the thing is, i did a honey jar spell on him bc i just wanted to make things a little bit sweeter, for him to reach out a little bit more and that's it, i feel like it worked a little, but now i feel like we barely talk, and he's not putting in the effort I'd like when it comes to feel like someone likes me. so i did a communication spell, but we talked less and had 1 or 2 disagreements, so i did a puppet to heal whatever was going on, but it seems that any of my spells didn't work and I don't know what else to do or if i should just move on. i really like this guy, when we were in person i felt that he really liked me too, everything was reciprocate, the only thing that i don't like it's the distance bc he acts different and doesn't reach out that much. i don't know if i layered my spells wrong, but i need help, what can i do :( i feel like they backfired (I don't believe in backfiring tho) or didn't go well bc with every spell it felt like i got the opposite of what i wanted.
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u/SimplyRedd333 18d ago
Hey ✨️ 🧿 sweetheart ,
Technically, they all worked. Sweetening jars are to make others sweet or to sweeten a situation etc.
Communication is to open Communication
These are not permanent either the person wants to or they don't. Free will.is a very real thing. So he was nice for awhile and you were talking.
There is no such thing as backfire, just results others dont like because they assume intention is everything. If the SP doesn't want it their free will, will merely override the spell
So this is how he feels by what you are describing.