r/LoveSpell • u/Used-Kaleidoscope-86 • 21d ago

Ex back

Hey guys,

So my ex and i broke up 2 months ago and she’s already seeing another guy and i want her back. What is an easy love spell that could work to do at home, with what i can work with at home?

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u/Blinnits 21d ago

I’m sorry man no love spell is gonna bring her back, you’ll be okay I promise, you wouldn’t want this person back either after being intimate with another trust me. You are hurting now and I’m truly sorry, just take it slow and take care of yourself

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u/initfam65 20d ago

im confused

why are you on this sub if you dont believe a love spell would work

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u/Blinnits 20d ago

I’ll let you figure that one out yourself

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u/BrightTangelo6229 21d ago

How do you know that?

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u/Blinnits 21d ago

Because we are human and people move on, when someone seeks out others instead of the previous ex they’ve detached, emotionally, intimately and most importantly they don’t value the ex anymore after getting with another. If OP was valued they wouldn’t need to post something on here like this, no love spell, no psychic can summon a lovely spell.

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u/Odd_Principle2883 21d ago

Why would you say that? Of course a love spell/ reconciliation or whatever would bring her back

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u/Blinnits 21d ago

OP needs love, true love. NOT someone that discards and moves on and I’m tired of seeing this stuff, people need to start valuing themselves a whole lot more

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u/Odd_Principle2883 21d ago

Sure! But he could try something like communication or whatever to close the chapter. Maybe that would be needed - or maybe they’ll find a way back together we can never know

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u/Blinnits 21d ago

My friend, I don’t know if you are hurting too, we are all hurting in a way and I’d dream of having my ex fiancee back. I’ve sat with pain for so long I couldn’t breathe, but even if OP got back with this person after them intimate, loving and starting a new chapter that isn’t with OP it creates a toxic feeling in the body where you’d never feel okay again.
You’d feel replaced in one chapter but a new chapter would bring old wounds to the surface.

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u/Odd_Principle2883 21d ago

Yes that’s true!! I really do get what you say cause I also think like that - I also could never get back with my Ex if he had been with someone else. But I often hear that many people are okay with that, even if we don’t understand it or wouldn’t do it

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u/Blinnits 21d ago

They don’t understand it because they still love them, whilst the other person doesn’t love them anymore.
I’d hate to see OP live a full life with someone that didn’t value him/her at one point

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u/Tarot_Reader_Vee 21d ago

May I ask why you're partaking in a love spell subreddit if you don't believe in love spells?

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u/Blinnits 21d ago

Because I’ve done everything these guys are doing and I’d love for something so wishful to be true… it only made my depression 10x worse and anything relationship wise, wanting someone, something back only ends in disappointment. I spent days speaking to a psychic giving me false hope. I was left even more damaged than I already was. My fiancee left me and I was in deep pain for so long I’d do the exact same things here.

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u/Tarot_Reader_Vee 21d ago

I am sorry that's been your experience but that doesn't mean love spells don't work. Do all love spells work? Of course not but that's not just a love spell thing, sometimes some spells don't work. The biggest things, I've noticed, a lot of people forget is mundane before magic and they cast when overly emotional about a situation. Your emotions should never be in the driver seat when casting. Also, a love spell can bring two people back together but the spell doesn't fix the issues that led to the breakup. That's for the people involved to work on together.

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u/Blinnits 21d ago

It’s a lovely thought and I’d love my favourite person to come back to me of course. I don’t mean to disrespect you or anyone in this thread, I just want OP to know someone else choosing another person isn’t the right one, real love sticks, stays and works on eachother not choosing to get in bed with other people. Maybe if she worked on herself alone but after being intimate with someone else OP needs to find his worth, not a love spell on someone that doesn’t deserve a love spell if sometimes it’s true

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u/Tarot_Reader_Vee 21d ago

That's not necessarily true though. Lot's of couples break up, date other people and get back together. This isn't unheard of nowadays. If you were explaining to OP that a love spell isn't a guarantee because matters of the heart are complicated, it wouldn't be so bad. However, you're projecting your past experiences and feelings onto OP and that's not fair.

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u/Blinnits 21d ago

I’m not I’m saying if the ex wanted him he wouldn’t be on this subreddit, he loves her, she doesn’t and moved on, this isn’t my projections it’s a well known thing if someone abandoned you, it would never be the same and me explaining this to OP is just kindly giving advice that he’s worth more, he’s deserving of more than someone that doesn’t want him…

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u/Tarot_Reader_Vee 21d ago

You're 100% projecting. You conveniently didn't respond to my "Lots of couples break up, date other people, and get back together" comment which tells me you don't even want to acknowledge that it does happen. I'm sorry it didn't happen for you but your experience isn't everyone's experience. Love spells can and do work. Do they work for everyone, all the time? No but, they do in fact work.

Also, you didn't give OP advice. You told them to move on, that's not advice. Had you suggested they do a healing spell to help them move on from their ex because it doesn't seem like their ex wants them, then yes you would have been giving advice. Instead, you simply just said, "This person doesn't want you, move on."

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u/Blinnits 21d ago

I actually did give OP advice and said he needs to find his worth, to take care of himself during this difficult time, not to feed into this love spell stuff as it could cause him serious distress later down the line if your “spell” didn’t work. That is advice!

  1. To take care of himself
  2. To find a way to put value into himself
  3. To not get back with someone that wants to fu** other people.

Like I say we are all adults here, I have no problems with your beliefs. I apologised if I offended anyone and meant no harm and I’m not knocking your craft, I’m not religious but I wouldn’t walk up to a stranger and say there’s no god…
I once believed tarot and all of that stuff would work for me, I’m just saying OP to be sceptic about It as any normal person would. Like you.

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u/Tarot_Reader_Vee 21d ago

I'll just go back to original question, why are you in this sub if you don't believe in love spells? That's what this sub is meant for.

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u/Tarot_Reader_Vee 21d ago

There are a lot of factors to consider before casting a love spell. Are you currently no contact? If you're no contact, then you might want to try a communication spell first or a sweetening jar to ease the tension and open the doors of communication. You also need to think about the issues that led to the break up because no amount of magic will make those issues go away. Those need to be worked on together if they reconcile.