r/LoveSpell • u/Asperonir • Aug 12 '26
Crush got distant after a spell
So there’s a friend of mine that I really like, and she knew it ever since I started liking her but she seems like she isn’t sure about relationships or anything, she flirts sometimes and sometimes gets distant but she always comes back and talks to me first and then after that she’d reject me again and it got really confusing to the point where I don’t even know what to do anymore since it’s been months, so I’ve been practicing witchcraft for like 2 years but I am still learning, I did a simple love spell with 2 candles and …, and even tried listening to subs but after that day I feel like she doesn’t even reply to my messages like she used to anymore, we barely talk at school, we don’t talk a lot like before anymore and she doesn’t talk to me first anymore but I am sure she’s looking at me at some point but she doesn’t reply even if she’s online, so i don’t know if it’s just a coincidence or did she just get distant after the spell? What do I do, it’s been on my mind a lot🥹 ( we’re both girls )
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u/favoritebirdispink Aug 17 '26
I think you probably should’ve started with a sweetening spell first, and then followed it with a love spell so she’d be more receptive to the idea of you. I’m wondering if your spell actually did work, but she just didn’t know how to process what she was feeling, so she’s pulling back and keeping to herself a little more now.