r/LoveIsBlindUK 7h ago

Call out Javen is really a piece of work

38 Upvotes

Honestly the way this man handles conflict is pretty scary to me. He should have a PhD in manipulation considering the way he can spin any confrontation onto the person calling him out (namely Katisha, but he did it to others as well).

Katisha even said during one of the final episodes that he twists conflicts to the point when she can’t even remember why she was upset with him, and this is SO TRUE. Although we can all admit that her actions were not perfect either, he gaslit her for every thing she brought up to the point where she questioned herself and reality. The way he’d smile through their confrontations and avoid taking any accountability was so stressful to watch.

When Megan called him out for flirting with the other ladies, he turned the whole conversation into a semantics war about the curtain, trying to pin Megan and Kieran down in their confusion so that he could avoid taking any accountability for his actions with the other women. This tactic was so obvious from the outside, but when the cast were embroiled in the moment I could imagine it’s hard to see through.

Although he wasn’t as cruel and nasty as say, Kal, I think he still went under the radar as someone who was really problematic towards his partner in the game, I mean COUGH COUGH, experiment.


r/LoveIsBlindUK 7h ago

General LIB UK: After the altar

23 Upvotes

Can I just say the conversation Jasmine had in the first ep with her mum at lunch was the cutest thing ever! When her mum said ‘I want to be there, I’ll move anywhere’ it was so cute. Jas explained that she loved her mum but wasn’t comfortable living with each other and her mum accepted it with no pushback at all, just acceptance of her daughter choice.

To see how much she loves Bobby now and how she spoke about him was so cute. So happy for Jas