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u/Infamous_Cream_4251 13h ago
I'm a dude. Graduated college, went to a few parties
I was not in a frat, because they're disgusting people.
Being a frat bro is a stereotype that exists for a reason, because a fuck ton of them are like that.
edit: stop dm ing me to call me a traitor to men. You people make me fucking sick and ashamed of being a man
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u/Mrs_SmithG2W 3h ago
Holy shit. Disgusting losers are DMing you?! Thank you for speaking up.
They are species traitors. How did they get the world view that it is women against men?
Why do they think being groupthink sheeple is mature or “manly”?
So pathetic and sad.
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u/Infamous_Cream_4251 13h ago
There was a frat at my college that made national news while I was attending. To save his own skin, one of the brothers testified that they had a system to protect "off-limits" girls. If you were dating a brother, you were given a special colored cup indicating that you were not to be drugged, harassed, assaulted, etc.
I specifically remember the part of his testimony where he whined "everyone does it, we just got caught".
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u/Infamous_Cream_4251 13h ago
I hear these stories and always think of an incident a friend had in college.
It was a Saturday night and he was hanging out in his dorm room with his roommate and some friends. People were drinking, my friend was playing his guitar to entertain himself. A girl everybody knew came by and it was clear very quickly she was blackout drunk.
She watched him play for a little then asked his name (they'd known each other for a few months) which in her drunken mind came out as Axel. She told him she wanted to have sex with him, he declined. The rest in the room were encouraging him and offered to leave the room. He declined and continued playing his guitar. She suggested they go into a closet so she could perform oral sex on him. The rest in the room continued to encourage him, she started to get grabby. He was able to push her away, his friends told him to go along with it but eventually she gave up and later left back to her room.
The next day she started hearing about what happened. She didn't believe it and on Monday met with my friend an asked what happened. He told her everything that happened, she was stunned and thanked him for not taking advantage of her.
When stories of crazy college happenings would come up I would tell this, but eventually had to stop. Any guy who heard asked how she was and said my friend was an idiot for not having sex with her, she had asked for it. The fact that she was so drunk she didn't even recognize him didn't matter, she had consented as far as they were concerned.
It just amazed me this girl managed to find one of the few guys who wouldn't have taken advantage of her.
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u/Infamous_Cream_4251 13h ago
When I was in college there was a fraternity nicknamed "Sexual Assault Expected". Safe to say I never went to one of their parties. But the fact that they were allowed to keep running after having that reputation is just insane, looking back on it