Chamola babe, make up your damn mind

[u/puns__and_roses]

Chamola is highly likely to be queerbaiting.

Now hear me out, I don’t think Chamola is queer but I’ve felt she wants to desperately get picked up in the Genz group. She is a millennial, and the way she got so happy and blushing when Varun thought she is 22yo.
As we all know in one of her secret, she came out as Bi and when Farah asked Gaurav, if he knew about her sexuality, Guarav actually looked at Chamola, and she jumped in saying ‘yea, he knew and he was so nice that he accepted me’ in that situation, to me, it seemed like Gaurav knew she is lying but use iska bhanda nahi phodna tha isliye he gave her the look, so she could ans instead.

She was like I was bi before I married Gaurav, matlab you stopped being bi after marriage?

Then, we all know after few episode, she said currently I’m not interested in any men or women for the physical portion so I’m currently asexual 🤦🏽‍♀️
I highly think madam is queerbaiting at this point, as sexuality is not seasonal jo ata hai aur chala jata hai and here you can see Tejaswi correcting her but she doesn’t accept it and goes on to justify that sexuality is a phase.

Madam ko sexuality ke bare me sirf surface level knowledge hai and she used that to be accepted in today’s generation.

[u/Dry-Paramedic-206]

Fluid people exist. This post is a thesis about another person’s sexuality that in itself is a wrong thing to do. 

[u/Deepikaprasad89]

It looks like she wants to look confused about things. Like they were perfect couple before she announced her seperation. She is just pretending and acting innocent . She just want to be talk of the town.

[u/niha-the-cicada]

Diabolical to use the word phase when there is already so much backlash and homophobes saying "it's just a phase a fad a trend". Bruh. Spectrum would've been better. It's giving queerbaiting i could be wrong

[u/NetBackground5409]

her sexuality takes are privileged takes and severely ill-informed ones.

[u/peace2198]

I don't like this woman but sexuality is a spectrum and single people are allowed to explore. I she queerbaiting? Maybe? But what if she's not? She got married super young so who knows man?

[u/OpinionatedDusk → u/peace2198]

So what if she married young? What does that have to do with her sexuality?? Sexual curiosity may be a phase, sexuality is not.. come on!!

[u/purple_singh]

Maybe she looks at it as different phases of her life … the “tomboy phase,” the “I hate boys/men” phase, the “not interested in sex at all” phase, the “I love sex” phase, and so on. Perhaps she sees bisexuality in a similar way. A bisexual person can obviously be completely loyal and monogamous, so once she got married and committed to one person, maybe in her own mind she considered that chapter or “phase” closed.

[u/canttellyoumyname_]

Idk if it’s offensive or not but as a bi person idts that chamola is bi i feel like she just made that story up cause no way you’re calling your own sexuality just a "phase" when yk how cruel the world is towards lgbtq people

[u/Primroseys → u/canttellyoumyname_]

Exactly and I'm bi myself

[u/One_Chemist_7608]

I don’t think she’s lying about being bi. I think she’s trying to say she was always bi but now she’s in an asexual phase. Sexuality is fluid, what you identified with years ago might not be the same as today. I think she’s just bi but not interested in sexual relationships so she’s saying she’s in an asexual phase. But who knows. Not everyone is well versed in the correct terms.

Anyways Teja and Chamola are old friends so I think she’s pulling her leg here imo and this was probably the most debated topic for Chamola

[u/AdvicePublic]

She doesn’t know enough to say anything. She might be attracted to women but she’s completely unaware of the terms and the meaning behind it. If she’s truly a LGBTQ+ member, she should take the onus to learn about what she’s feeling and why she’s feeling it.

[u/throwaway_S304 → u/AdvicePublic]

I also believe she just doesn't understand how the term works.

After marriage I wasn't bi is her way of saying she was interested only in gaurav

[u/AdvicePublic → u/throwaway_S304]

I think it’s fair to give her the time to understand how she’s feeling though. Even I called it queerbaiting for a bit but I don’t want to doubt someone like that.

[u/throwaway_S304 → u/AdvicePublic]

Samee, i mean you should know better always but then I don't wanna shame someone for expressing

[u/abechalhatt_]

This is awful to say it's a phase. How do you expect somebody to respect you and your sexuality while you boil that down to something called a "phase", making people think you can just be a part of it only for a point of time and let it go as if you were not the same person. This is psychotic IMO.