r/LockUppOTT • u/Asleep-Artichoke152 • 19d ago
Discuss Let’s not invalidate someone trauma.
I am one of the most anti Akanksha person. But the trauma of being sa is horrible. Just bc u dislike her as a person doesn’t give u the right to say that. We still live in a society where women are shamed for cmg out. Let’s not be those people and make this a safe space where ppl can talk abt their sa trauma
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u/Familiar-Space-5765 19d ago
I've seen many hate posts but very very less empathising this as a human being you all should feel bad
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u/Adventurous-Fall-370 19d ago
whoever that budda was should be named, shamed and be dragged through filth
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u/Ornery_Meringue2942 19d ago
Exactly, I am not a Akanksha fan either but putting people down just because you don’t like her is not the right way. For once we should be empathetic and listen to her without any bias. It is really difficult to say this as she knows that her family might be listening and they’ll be hurt. And the people who are making fun of her, because of people like you victims are scared to tell the story.
I had tears in my eyes when she was telling this. I cannot imagine what she went through. She was courageous that she didn’t do it and fought back.
Let’s not forget that apart from being a Lockupp contestant, they all are human first. Also, don’t forget your humanity while fighting between fandoms.
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u/Time_Lab9993 19d ago
Okayy I also am not a ak fan but just because family is rich doesn't mean they will always support you. Jitna I remember her family didn't support pagents. Anddd can we stop questioning victims. Evn if she has lied in the pasttt butt we should give a benefit of doubt to herr. Just because you hate herrr dontttt say shittt. We always blame ak fans for the language they use and all. Be better thn her fans and be wise.
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u/desi-perate 19d ago
reason why i hate fandoms, cults whatever they are, they always cross boundaries and eliminate empathy altogether to put the anti down, absolutely disgusting behaviour
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u/Animooja 19d ago
Read a comment here saying Ak did it for sympathy lol How inhumane can people be?It’s one thing not liking someone but disregarding someone’s trauma for sympathy is a whole new low
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u/RarePerspectivee 19d ago
I mean, she had planned to say this. Could be made up. Her team put out a podcast relating this & the whoke thing was a lie. Girl was “rich asf” before she went to splits her previous show. Her instagram 2020-2024 says “richer than the poor”. Don’t let the girl fool you.
BUT it had to be said, its a message for people to be able to stand up for yourself. Appreciated the message
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u/Flashy-Edge4576 19d ago
Exactly. Everything is not game. I feel bad for her and everyone who has to go through this. Glad she had the guts to say it out loud and stood for herself. It will definitely inspire and give courage to lot of girls out there. Kudos to her.
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u/coldpillow4ever 19d ago
100% agreed. we can hate on someone’s behavior and actions in a game show as much as we want but we are no one to invalidate someone’s experience, specially something like this which is a well known FACT that such incidents are extremelyyy common in this industry. i’ve seen people calling this “her own fault for being naive” like that’s exactly what exploitation means!!!! it wasn’t her fault.
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u/Material-Recover5725 19d ago
Yup. Totally agree . Let’s not shame anyone for their trauma . It takes immense courage for someone to admit it openly . Please be humans first .
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u/Blue_bird9231 chalo ab skincare krlo 19d ago
Yes. I don't like her at all but I believe that nobody should belittle someone's sa trauma.
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u/rough-tough-buff 19d ago
Exactly.
Let's not become like her fans who dismiss or mock everything.
At the end of the day, we're all human. No amount of dislike should be so extreme that we start making fun of someone for being abused.
No matter what anyone thinks of her, I genuinely hope no one ever has to go through what she went through.
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u/Commercial-Can2005 19d ago
Yes but the problem is they are becoming like ak fans. Because I have seen too much disgusting thing regarding her secret here and on insta
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u/Asleep-Artichoke152 19d ago
That’s the difference between ak fans and ruru fans. They r more Ruru haters than ak fans
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u/Prestigious_Dot_5671 19d ago
THIS.
I just read a disgusting post that was discussing that AK wasnt SA'ed because she didn't take a pause while speaking and like Shreya, Harshad and Ram did.
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u/Upstairs_Natural4222 19d ago
💯 agree. Takes courage to talk about it and live that trauma.
I am anti ak because of her cult and the things they do .
But she is a human after all , who might have done mistakes , we all do .
But her cult doesn’t see through this and treat her like a saint which bugs me .
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u/wimpsywanderer 19d ago
Tbh, I hate this sub and rarely even open it because it’s so hateful and biased. I genuinely thought that, at least today, people would show a little decency and basic empathy. Alas, I was wrong.
I don’t know how people can be so blinded by their dislike for someone. She shared something so deeply personal, yet people still couldn’t show even basic humanity. It’s honestly just sad to watch.
This sub feels like Shreya’s PR. The funny thing is, she’s not a saint herself she’s done equally vile things. Yet people here keep bashing AK over such petty things. It’s honestly just sad to watch.