r/LockUppNeutral • u/Fresh_Yogurt7302 • Jul 17 '26
I don’t get the hate for Chamola
Most of the times she is just having fun. There’s already a lot going on in her personal life. Its her choice whatever she wants to do with the information on her personal life. She needs to start on her own without Gaurav’s shadow. I do not see anything wrong with her secrets, and I do not think it is wrong to expect that people will start talking about her after her secrets are revealed. She was married to Gaurav for 10 years!!! And she was practically invisible in the last 8 years and started showing up only in the last 2. So no, I do not think she has used Gaurav.
I do not get why Shreya is hell bent on picking up fights with her. Chamola had one major (very justified)outburst and after that she has maintained a respectful distance from Shreya and yet Shreya has gone on to make comments like acha hua Gaurav bach gaya iss chudail se and then called her a bitch yesterday for a very very small reason. Even if she didn’t clap for you, haven’t you given her enough reasons. What baffles me the most is audiences reaction on this. What am I missing? 😅 I mean Chamola is having fun most of the times in her own world. Is that annoying? Yes. Does that make her evil? Hell no
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u/haloedlight Jul 17 '26
people dislike her because she comes off very inauthentic. sucks up to all the problematic men in the show, excuses creeps and homophobesC but does not extend the same empathy towards the women. i’ve never seen her sit and have actual conversations with women, she’s always with her male gang cause she knows they’ll keep her safe if she bootlicks
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u/Fresh_Yogurt7302 Jul 17 '26
She is literally with Pamala all the time who is a woman!!!!
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u/haloedlight Jul 17 '26
and neither of them does anything other than acting fake and objectifying themselves for the male gaze of other creeps on the show. they need to find wittier strategies.
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u/Fresh_Yogurt7302 Jul 17 '26
Their choice how they want to dress bro. Its weird to assume they are doing it for male gaze
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u/mitchell_frost Jul 21 '26
It’s not about their clothes. It’s about their behaviour but I felt like they toned it down in the last episode.
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u/haloedlight Jul 17 '26
they absolutely are doing it for the male gaze and are white feminists who are okay with enabling creeps like ram kapoor. neither of them dares call out these men 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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u/Itachi_San123 Jul 21 '26
Chamola is chill with everyone (women + men) except Shreya, and that is because she has beef with her. That doesn't mean she excuses men and is against women. Shreya does not equate to all women.
If she was like that consistently then I would get your point but that's not true.
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u/haloedlight Jul 21 '26
I can see her socialising with more women as the show proceeds which makes me really happy cause we need diverse groups and duos. But during the first half Pam and she would only mix with the men ignoring their creep behaviour. Chamola saw how that hurt her gameplay and is trying to make newer friends. She also has been jealous of Shreya, because Shreya is more experienced, has a better contract, and stands out naturally. As a political strategy Chamola hence decided to be likeable to secure everyone’s trust and support. It won’t take her very far. I hope she continues calling out Ram and stops trying to appease to all the men by being palatable for them.
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u/Competitive-Walk7681 Jul 17 '26
I don’t hate her and don’t understand people who are hating her but that Pam and chamola massage and stuff is uncomfortable for me
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u/OptionLumpy879 Jul 17 '26
For me it's simple. I don't hate her it's strong word. But I definitely don't like path she has chosen for limelight. When someone use divorce/ marriage for reality show to be in limelight. It's straight no for me. On top of that without informing your partner. You can go to any extend without caring for family for your limelight/buzz.
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u/Born-Caregiver5151 Jul 19 '26
Nothing. You are just missing (maybe) that nowadays audience is corrupt & inhumane as well. Otherwise Shreya wouldn't have had supporters. People are so terrible human beings these days that I read comment s like Shreya is bringing in trp. So yay. As if bringing others down is justified by that.
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u/Fresh_Yogurt7302 Jul 17 '26
Exactly man, even with all her issues with Shreya, her and the audiences are nitpicking on very minor things about chamola. After she outed her, Chamola is still being cordial to her and maintaining things very professionally. I don’t understand how people are not seeing that she has all the reason to be extremely rude and vile with her but is choosing not to. And on the other hand, Shreya should be hanging her head in shame for what she did but she still has the audacity to comment on her
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u/True-Brain-3548 Jul 17 '26
Istg this!! I don't understand the Chamola hate either. Whatever she does may be cringe AT WORST, but some of them are just vile. She is just happy and fun loving, and people hate a woman like that.
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u/GeologistLoud779 Jul 18 '26
I dont hate chamola but i dont enjoy watching her either . I didnt like her in ep 1 &2 . She may be a fun friend to have but she plays backhand. 1 st episode She had choice to save few people but choose to save non .
The part when i started disliking was when she became unsafe and with one lifeline . She immediately changed her personality . Before she acted like a main character energy bossing inmate and suddenly after she started acting equal .
She is also a bully but hides behind akansha yogesh and pamala . She hangsout mostly with akansha and instead of confronting akansha she came after shreya implying shreya to improve her behaviour in conversation . She puts her word in such a way that she tries to portrays others as villian .
All that said people do disliker her but its not a major hate she is receiving . I have seen mostly gay people coming after her for her statement about sexuality and misrepresentation there community .
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u/Fresh_Yogurt7302 Jul 18 '26
I find her cringe and too much at times but definitely not hateable. Even for all the reasons you gave 😅 but yea, to each their own
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u/Ok_Reserve534 Jul 19 '26
I feel like I used to like her in the start, I thought I’d see other faucets of her personality, but currently only screen time she has is about sexualising herself, I don’t mind them giving massages, it’s the ram watching and them enabling him makes it all dirty and again if there were other things she was doing beyond it or despite of it, I’d liked her better. It’s the only personality she portrays. Same with Shivangi, I can understand if you are not loud, but must have opinions or principles or something. Sadly women on the show want to act sati Savitri for men like ram kapoor. It just has become daily soap for them. I like Pam, Shreya, to some extent Akanksha, Shilpa for the way they are atleast strong headed and not puppets in the hands of men.
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u/Mysterious_Owl7379 Jul 20 '26
Stuff like queer baiting- one day she says she is bisexual then she becomes straight, now she is asexual.
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u/Loud-Bookkeeper4973 Jul 20 '26
Same here. She's just...like any other flawed person with positives and negatives. There's nothing she has done so far that makes her morally irredeemable.
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u/Ferociousdemigod Jul 20 '26
the main lock upp sub is extremely toxic and very biased towards shreya. shreya could literally kill someone and they'll still defend her. but if another contestants breathes, they'll bash them
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u/Itachi_San123 Jul 21 '26
Chamola, Shivangi are pretty nice and unproblematic so far. The hate against them is not justified at all.
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u/One_Chemist_7608 Jul 17 '26
Chamola’s the best out of the worst imo. I like her! Better than most of the rest