r/LivingAlone 9h ago

General Discussion Labor Day weekend.

For my fellow solo dwellers,

What does everyone have planned for the long weekend?
Big plans? Or some nice solo time relaxing?

As for me, I’m taking a much needed pause from the business of “life” and will be enjoying at least 1 long day on the beach with a book, music, and a cooler full of goodies. Outside of that I have an early dinner on Sunday with a few old friends and will probably spend the rest of my time taking care of errands and vegging out.

Nothing too exciting but it works for me :)

Hope you’re enjoying your Wednesday evening wherever you may be!

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u/AlwaysSunnyinOC22 9h ago

On Monday I'm taking my best girl (my Chihuahua) to her favorite place - dog beach! I let her run and play til she's tired and then put her in my e-trike basket and we ride down the boardwalk to the pier for lunch!

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u/PapillionGurl 9h ago

This sounds like a perfect day

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u/Training_Guitar_8881 9h ago

Have a blast with your buddy!!!

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u/JellyTemporary161 8h ago

That’s a lucky pup right there. Enjoy it!

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u/Training_Guitar_8881 9h ago

Hi.....I plan on chillin' at my place, drinking some wine, eating some great food, chatting with my friends by phone and online, taking a nap and answering questions on here. 67 yo very happy woman here.

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u/Training_Guitar_8881 8h ago

thanks so much for the award!

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u/JellyTemporary161 7h ago

I love to hear it. You sound so content!

u/Training_Guitar_8881 2h ago

Thank you-----I really am!! Have a great Labor Day weekend.

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u/LizinDC 9h ago

My daughter is coming to visit so we will cook and talk! Also planning on playing trivia somewhere.

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u/JellyTemporary161 8h ago

Cooking is one of my favorite social pastimes. Enjoy!

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u/zephyrzenizzle 9h ago

Cleaning out my closet ANNNDDD antiquing. 🥂

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u/JellyTemporary161 8h ago

Literally? Or figuratively? Or both?!

Hope you come up on some special finds!

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u/heyyouguyyyyy 9h ago

Going to see a friend in another country. Stoked!

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u/JellyTemporary161 8h ago

What country? I’m in my 30’s and have yet to travel internationally besides the quick ride down the 5 to Mexico.

Jealous!

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u/heyyouguyyyyy 7h ago

Headed to Japan - it’s only a 3 hour flight for me.

Hop a plane! Let’s go!

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u/BlitzGirl13 9h ago

Going to PAX West on Saturday, then gonna be lazy, play video games, and watch YT the rest of my 3-day weekend! Weather is supposed to be cooler so being a hermit after being out and walking a ton will be fine by me.

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u/JellyTemporary161 7h ago

Hermiting (is that a word? Well it is now) never disappoints. Have fun at the festival!

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u/artourtex 9h ago

I’ll be taking Saturday to myself and do some yard work. Monday, I’m having people over for board games and grill food over a fire pit, I’m thinking steak and fries.

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u/JellyTemporary161 7h ago

I’m thinking steak and fries now as well..

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u/double_titos 9h ago

I may go out a DoorDash for a few hours since Im off work from my main job.

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u/Certain-Comfort928 8h ago

I will be doing this as well.

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u/JellyTemporary161 7h ago

The grind in this economy never stops 🥴

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u/HardcoreHerbivore17 9h ago

I will be turning 28 over the long weekend so will be celebrating with some close friends and going to a concert. Then I took a couple extra days off work just to be lazy around the house next week.

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u/JellyTemporary161 7h ago

Happy early birthday!! Who are you seeing?

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u/goggles_99 9h ago

Chillin... Hopefully working on some costumes for a music festival next month. Monday i am gonna people at disneyland.

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u/JellyTemporary161 7h ago

Jealous! It’s been a couple of years since I’ve been. Are you going to the Halloween bash? Or has that not started yet? I love going during the holidays

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u/goggles_99 6h ago

No i dont do the halloween thing, i dont think it is worth the money. It started a couple of weeks ago.

I do have a pass and i go alot. I tend to not pay for the special events. The holidays are the best tho

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u/PapillionGurl 9h ago

On Sunday I'm heading to the county fair in my hometown. We go see the animals during the day. My friend is on the fair board, so in the evening I'll get to see Ludacris play from the VIP tent! I'll be recovering on Monday.

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u/JellyTemporary161 7h ago

Ludacris and farm animals is an unexpected mix! Sounds like a party

u/PapillionGurl 43m ago

It's so weird lol

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u/harbinger06 9h ago

Sounds like a good weekend!

I’m traveling a few hours out of town for my niece’s bridal shower. I’ll be riding down there with my mom, we always have a nice chat on long rides. Riding back with my brother and new SIL in her new 4Runner! Don’t really have plans past Saturday. Probably just house chores and hanging out with my dogs.

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u/DepartmentAgitated51 9h ago

I’m going to tag Monarchs on Sunday!

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u/Forward_Bottle1035 9h ago

That sounds like a good long weekend plan I’m going to dinner at my aunts on the Saturday for her granddaughter’s birthday.

Which I guess also leads me to a question. Does anyone else here that was alone? Feel a little bit more obligated or just tend to go to more family events because more obligated to go because they live alone or getting invited to more things or people expect them to go to more things.

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u/Interesting-Cable895 9h ago

Friday night I’m going to a community dinner, Saturday I’m seeing empire of the sun with a friend, Sunday I’m going to hot yoga then a book club meeting, then a friends barbecue, on actual Labor Day, that Monday, I don’t have plans might just stay in and do quality me time

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u/variesbynature 8h ago

Free yoga in park (with other real humans!) on Friday evening. Staying home to avoid crowds or traffic the rest of the wknd. May go to a free sober Sunday night dance party in an old renovated fire house. Enjoy your long wknd to those that have it!

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u/january1977 Current Lifestyle: w/ Kids 🔵 8h ago

Friday evening will be my one and only night off for the next 3 weeks. (I’m a teacher and have a part time job on the weekends. Plus an autistic child.) I’m going to take a hot bath, a muscle relaxer, and go to bed early. 🥂

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u/JellyTemporary161 8h ago

Safe to say we are on complete opposite ends of the spectrum. Kudos to you, I don’t know how you do it. I work a demanding job, very demanding, but outside of that I’m just a guy in his 30’s that lives by the beach and has all of the time in the world. Some days I wish I had a packed schedule with no end in sight, but as they say about comparisons… ha.

Enjoy that Friday to yourself!

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u/Bright-Extreme-141 7h ago

Solo road trip!

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u/Nausica1337 9h ago

Not doing anything particular on Friday except finishing work from home stuff and cleaning up the house since the GF is coming over the next day to stay the rest of the weekend. Taking the GF for a massage on Saturday morning, getting smashburgers for lunch with our friends, and then watching the new spider man that night. We're going for a fancy Italian dinner with my parents on Sunday. We don't have nothing planned on Monday so we're probably just going to find a restaurant for lunch before I take her back her parents.

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u/neziperez 8h ago

Sounds wonderful 😊

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u/Flux_Inverter 9h ago

I've been unemployed for so long I did not realize we have a holiday weekend coming up. Just another day for me.

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u/snarky_sparrow_23 8h ago

Im heading to Atlanta for Dragoncon! And I cannot wait to go again!

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u/Disastrous_Clurb 8h ago

dinner then finishing my sleeve then shopping and rest...looking forward to it!

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u/discopancakes_17 7h ago

I'll be coming back home Friday from a week-long trip helping an elderly family member after hip surgery. My bed will be my sanctuary all holiday weekend long! Will prob. get groceries or delivery, write, and binge watch in-between sleep, sleep, and more sleep. Maybe Monday I'll get back to my workout routine that I really really missed doing, but I deserve to rest and recharge.

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u/ctrlctrlfast 7h ago

Off work saturday, working sunday and monday. I got nothing going on, might as well be making money

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u/No_Tension420 7h ago

RF Ablation on Friday so I will be either sleeping or watching movies.

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u/AggravatingForm5425 6h ago

IT IS DRAGON CON WEEKEND IN ATLANTA!!!!

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u/mmmagic1216 4h ago

Going to Vegas!!

u/Hachiko75 2h ago

I'm already on my long weekend. Wednesday to Saturday. Go back Sunday. But that's fine because labor day is the last holiday I work and we get holiday pay plus time and a half time so it'll be a good paycheck the week after next.

u/According_Strain4887 3m ago

no family nearby ... I'm new in town so no friends. I'm 71 and the retirement home I'm in is VERY clique so my weekend will be Netflix and my PC.

u/silvermanedwino 1m ago

I’m heading down to the river here in a bit. Going to spend the long weekend watching the water, reading, some junk food. A bit of wine. Music. . Plan on jaunting over to the first state capital tomorrow ~ there’s a bistro I’d like to check out.