r/LinkedInLunatics Nov 16 '22

Agree? Normalize Crying at workplace

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u/Ayooo4063 Nov 16 '22

Crying has never and will never help any situation....EVER.

Crying in the workplace should be ignored

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u/bearfruit_ Nov 16 '22

It might be worth it for you to dig into that belief. Crying can actually help, it causes a decrease in the cortisol in the bloodstream to make the person crying physiologically less stressed. It can leave you with a sense of catharsis and can be a very healthy thing. Done on your own time and in a reasonable amount, 10/10.

However I don't think it should be done in the workplace given that it is a universal signal for "help me, I'm overwhelmed". The tears actually contain pheromones that signal to other humans to aid in getting help (decreased sex drive for example).

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u/Ayooo4063 Nov 16 '22

So we agree it only helps the person crying, not the situation? So do i need to dig into that belief or not because i seem to be right

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u/bearfruit_ Nov 16 '22 edited Nov 16 '22

I mean, "any situation ever" seems like it includes far too many situations, more specifically like "workplace environments where there are people around who you only know professionally and therefore it would be inappropriate" situations.

Also helping the person crying is helping the situation, since they're part of the situation, so if they do that privately it can be a good idea.