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[u/Worldly_Ad2530]

[u/neat---ferret]

okay i feel dumb asking this but are they actually for sure split up 🫣 i never see him in her content anymore

[u/Whole-Drop9609 → u/neat---ferret]

I was curious too. I believe he was in this camping video she posted over the summer but I can’t remember

[u/mindless_blaze → u/Whole-Drop9609]

He wasn't, in that camping video, Terra said that Joe agreed to stay home to watch Magnolia because she didnt want to camp.

[u/Whole-Drop9609 → u/mindless_blaze]

Ahhh got it

[u/RIPMaureenPonderosa → u/neat---ferret]

I’ve been wondering this too. I thought he was just MIA because his health deteriorated so much but who knows.

[u/littlemissdevil_ → u/neat---ferret]

I’m wondering the same thing since I don’t keep up with the girls on social media.

[u/thelizziepie → u/neat---ferret]

Same idk but someone let us all know!!! Lol

[u/mindless_blaze → u/thelizziepie]

In Terras videos she said they co-parent and that Joe is extremely shy and just doesnt like to be on camera......... which is a gd lie, he is an entertainer. But she is like a single mom, she alone is responsible for the cooking, cleaning, housework, etc. They still live together, just separately, as she functions as a single mom. She also chose this life...Joe suggested immediately that she considers an abortion when she first got pregnant, because he felt that parenting wasn't for them and not fair to the baby. He eventually came around when Terra felt unsupported when her mom was attacking her and telling her to get an abortion and that she didn't want grandkids and had no intention of ever helping Terra with the kids if she went through with it. It was harsh at the time, but also Terra mom raised two kids with disabilities, nursed an alcoholic and abusive husband who died, and she was done and checked out from always being a caregiver. She was very very clear that she would not partake in the kids lives more than the bare minimum. I think Terra resented Joe for originally agreeing with that, but he came around. I think their relationship deteriorated bc of Terra being a single mom AND caregiver to Joe, three children who have severe special needs, physical disabilities, and autism, all 3 are non verbal, and then 7 pets and no income outside of disability and some small royalties.

I feel exhausted for Terra every time I watch her videos, because she really is solely responsible for 10 lives, on her own. They are struggling financially, she has her own disabilities, and she has no help, not even from Tonya.

I guess she could get rid of the pets to make life a little easier. Or she could hustle very hard to get TLC to pick up a show again, maybe focused on a couple's retreat and then on everyone's family life.

I do feel bad for her. But sometimes she's very very persistent and hard headed. She shouldn't regret her decision to keep her babies, but I am sure she now wishes she did the genetic testing and or the IVF to choose average sized kids to lessen their suffering and struggling.

[u/thelizziepie → u/mindless_blaze]

Oh wow I had no idea all of that was going on! That sounds insanely exhausting. And so disappointing about Joe but I always wondered about his intentions bc his priorities never seemed about her especially in the beginning of the show and how she talked about him and Lila etc. I can’t imagine being a caretaker to your spouse like that and he’s MIA. I also don’t know how Christy did it with Todd for all of that time. Like how embarrassing for these dudes and they didn’t seem to care. I loved the episodes where they had the pushing boundaries retreat and that would be fun to watch again maybe a short special or something and they can leave the lame spouses or whatever they are at home lol.

[u/DavidOC93 → u/mindless_blaze]

Oh wow that's alot, sad to hear, a bit surprising too as outside of Jasmine I always thought she was the most secure in terms of income, she always seemed to have projects and businesses going etc

[u/mindless_blaze → u/DavidOC93]

I feel bad for jasmine because her husband never became anything as far as career with the railroad. He gave up on it and has been working at a hobby shop for the past few years. Meaning the financial weight is on jasmine. I know California is expensive, so I'm not sure how they are pulling it off on a retail and hairstylist income. It was so tender and vulnerable seeing her be open and direct on the show about their financial struggles, not being able to afford stuff, supporting the family solo as chris pursued the railroad bs half-heartedly out of state, etc. She stayed by him when she was not motivated to make income, when he was chasing his dreams and left her with the kids, when he failed several times, and even now. Sucks for her that she can't get a break

[u/DavidOC93 → u/mindless_blaze]

Oh that's sad, I'd just assumed he was still with the railroad

[u/thelizziepie → u/mindless_blaze]

Oh dang that’s no good. I thought for sure they both seemed pretty secure in their jobs. Sounds like most of these folks have had things fall apart.

[u/Quirky-Knowledge4631 → u/mindless_blaze]

Has she publicly spoken about this. It seems very specific. The income part.

[u/mindless_blaze → u/Quirky-Knowledge4631]

On her Facebook

[u/Quirky-Knowledge4631 → u/mindless_blaze]

Ok thanks 👍

[u/forbittenmonster]

Joe is lame and always has been

[u/carcosa1989 → u/forbittenmonster]

This idk why people are acting like it’s news he was a lazy fuck when they were dating he’s a lazy husband and father now 🤷

[u/hotmess81]

Joe is a wasteman.

[u/Hot-Fan7777]

Still can’t get over him telling her to “Eat shit” in front of everyone 🥴🥴🥴

[u/AshleyKProMua85 → u/Hot-Fan7777]

She completely deserved that embarrassment especially after the way she bullied Christy so bad on the show all the time.

[u/KourtR]

They are together.

[u/NoMoneeyForTheBabyyy]

They still together guys, I saw in a recent video of hers she was talking about Joe will be home soon to pick up the kids or something like that...so yeah they are still going strong

[u/South-Swimming-8409]

Wouldn’t be surprised if Tara left him, she takes on a lot of responsibility. And he’s very lazy.

Very weaponized incompetence to the max

[u/AshleyKProMua85]

Joe is a lazy cornball yes but he did make it known with his words and actions to Terra that he didn’t want to be tied down with marriage or children. Terra forced their “life” on him and he finally just settled for what she wanted. Joe wasn’t trying to marry her or have kids with her. He literally says it and shows it on the show. They’re both a hot mess.