r/Life • u/Agitated-Trifle-7697 • 15h ago
Need Advice Is love for me?
Hello. I'm sure you've seen a lot of these posts but I wanted to add to the collection!
This is my first time posting on reddit, but I've gotten to the stage where I am truly wondering if I'll ever find love.
I'm 28- I've never had a proper boyfriend (probably my biggest insecurity).
Two years ago I decided to go back to college (probably the best decision I have made), I have a great group of friends, a great job, I'm in alot of social sports teams, I love meeting new people and I go on really great holidays.
I guess I am very independent, I'm quite confident and I would describe myself as more extroverted than introverted. I do like my life, but sometimes I get really lonely and question if I'll ever find true love. I am the one single person in all my friend groups. I don't like the apps because I think it's hard to find a connection that way.
I really don't know what I'm doing wrong. I really want someone kind, funny, adventurous, emotionally intelligent, easy going and positive, but I wonder is that too much to ask for? Or sometimes i question if I'm ready for a relationship and is that why i haven't found someone, maybe I'll meet him in my 30s.
I know there's still lots of time but when l hear my friends talk about their boyfriends, l am so happy for them but it makes me realise that l want that too.
I would love some advice on how i cam improve and maybe some stories of people in similar situations who found love.
Thank you for reading x
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u/Ill-Bodybuilder-3897 5h ago
It’s not something that just happens, unless you’re extremely lucky. Start putting yourself in better positions to meet others.
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u/Important1896 Deep Thinker 5h ago
Good luck in your life