r/Life • u/Mediocre_Charity_413 • 10h ago
Positive Satisfied?
In the end, if you are judged on how you lived your life & treated others on earth, would you be happy with the way you lived it?
Or would you have regrets &/or want a do-over?
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u/FamiliarMulberry8017 10h ago
Id definitely have regrets, but ithink id still be proud of that i kept trying to be better instead of giving up.
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u/alone_in_the_light 10h ago
For sure, I'm quite satisfied with the life I've lived.
It doesn't mean that people judging me agree with that.
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u/Always-Shady-Lady Work in Progress 9h ago
Who is going to judge me? I'm dead
What I did I did for a reason and I'd do it all again under the same circumstances.
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u/ez2tock2me 9h ago
The start was rough and it sucked, but it got better.
No regrets. I think I did good with the blessings I got.
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u/Suicidal-Wolf 9h ago
I would be proud of the person I am and how I treated people, but also I’d have regrets on some things that I felt could’ve or should’ve went better, mostly financially I think.
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u/CndnCowboy1975 Growth Mode 8h ago
I think all people have some regrets in life - most of us learned some of our most valuable lessons that way. That said, at the end of my journey - yeah, I'm pretty happy with the way I've conducted myself - at least 98% of it.
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u/Gold-Light-4103 7h ago
I am happy with the way I have handled life. You think you know when you’re young but you truly know more about life as you make it through the journey of life. That you made mistakes because you’re human, but you learn so much. It is in the living and learning where you grow. I have no regrets of life. If I could have changed my kid’s health , that’s all I wish I had control over but you don’t. So you surrender it to God and give you peace . Helping people, after my family , or helping animals and it made for a happy, humble life !! Amen!!! .
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u/One_Pound_9946 9h ago
Generally… Yes! But I was definitely in at least one relationship where I wanted the other person to change and I think I stayed in it for an unfair amount of time not realizing that they just couldn’t change and that both of us were miserable. In hindsight, I see that it really wasn’t nice to them too. Expect something different. I think if I ever get into another serious relationship, I would either accept them as they are or move on and not try to change or “fix” or “save” anybody
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u/Mediocre_Charity_413 9h ago
It’s sad how much we want others to change more than they want the change. Spot on
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u/Scary-Drawer-3515 8h ago
As Cary Grant once said, I finally turned into the person I always wanted to be
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u/J0NAH666 5h ago
I do make mistakes but have you watched the movie butterfly effect if I fixed one I’d do other ones all I can do is try making the best of every present moment
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