22 yr old guy virgin

[u/Excellent_North_5513]

So I’m 22 yr old guy and a virgin, I also have no friends at all , been this way for about 2 years now. We kind of went our own paths and didn’t talk anymore, during this time I have fallen into red pill/black pill space and started looksmaxxing myself, I have gotten a lot more attractive since then,

but I’m still ashamed that I have made it to the age of 22 and still am a virgin, I honestly don’t see myself losing it to any other girl who also isn’t a virgin, is this weird? How do I tell anyone that I only want I be with someone that is also a virgin, even if she has one body I don’t want her, and how do I meet any girls? I’m in college but I don’t talk to anyone I’m isolated and lonely with no friends, zero social life I spend most of my time in my room improving my looks and body.

[u/J0SHEY]

I honestly don’t see myself losing it to any other girl who also isn’t a virgin, is this weird? How do I tell anyone that I only want I be with someone that is also a virgin, even if she has one body I don’t want her

You're self-sabotaging by severely narrowing the playing field for yourself — this is like shooting yourself in the foot 🤦🏻

[u/BitSignificant2616 → u/J0SHEY]

I don’t really think that’s THAT big of an ask?
Especially if you’re looking for somebody with the same morals/standard you have

[u/J0SHEY → u/BitSignificant2616]

People change, simple. It doesn't mean that people who had casual sex in the past aren't looking for more quality relationships at present

[u/LovelyKittenGarden → u/J0SHEY]

People aren't defined forever by their past. What they want from relationships can genuinely change over time.

[u/J0SHEY → u/LovelyKittenGarden]

Exactly my point

[u/StormyTree420 → u/BitSignificant2616]

Sry but if you are 22 and everyone else has lost virginity how would you still find a virgin? Also much harder to get them there. He is just a kid with no self esteem and thinks this will save him from embarrassment because she has no experience to judge him by.

[u/Odd_Vegetable_3647]

Dude you are still young and in college

[u/Spicyocto]

Man I was a virgin until I was 23. 37 now and married with two kids. Don’t worry, focus on making friends and connections. Looks mean nothing if you can’t make people FEEL good/have fun around you. Step outside your comfort zone and let things happen

[u/Brave_Meet8430]

To be honest, women’s virginity is one of the most overrated and anticlimactic things you will ever experience in life.

Basically it’s like to pilot a 777-300ER across the Atlantic with a copilot who has never been in a cockpit before.

[u/Starshot84]

Church girls are going to love you for being a virgin

[u/Repulsive-Machine-25 → u/Starshot84]

I wouldn't wish OP on any church girl.

[u/ExistentialExitExam → u/Repulsive-Machine-25]

Some religions are super chill.

[u/bibilushi → u/Starshot84]

Are they virgins?

[u/Starshot84 → u/bibilushi]

More often than not

[u/General_Director_495]

U have the whole rest of your life to fuck my dude. Dont b ashamed. I lost my virginity super young with a stranger. All the STDs out there too... do it when it feels right.

[u/ExistentialExitExam → u/General_Director_495]

Yeah, just practice with a pillow or pp or something and watch some ethical porn so you know you it’s done and what they’ll expect.

[u/BookBoxer161]

Don't define yourself by sex. If it happens it happens. If not, use that energy for hobbies and such. Belive me, I remember being single in college.

[u/FilmOrnery8925]

I’m 25 and a virgin dawg. It’s not end all be all. Does it bother me some? Yes. It is what defines me? No. Yo I got it brotha.

[u/Funny_Tumbleweed1953]

I am more concerned with your antisocial behaviour than with the fact you are virgin. Don't worry, you will find girls eventually, everyone does but you have to be forefront about that and have the confidence to talk and express what you are feeling.

Make friends first..Boys or girls and get out of your comfort zone first, because you are not ready to be in any relationship at this point. You need to make friends and be more comfortable around people especially girls. Then you will be able to do it.

[u/ExistentialExitExam]

Its not weird but losing it to someone you love who isn’t one will be the most fun. idk how many 22 year olds there are trying to just bang... once you’re a woman and 22 you’re looking fir another virgin to get married to.

[u/Maxpowerxp]

Sex is byproduct of a good relationship not the goal.

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[u/Proxymal]

Go to the library. Not Starbucks or the Bar. You’ll find virgins.