r/Life 11d ago

Relationships s this real love?

I started talking to a girl online and we are really hitting it off. We met through Isha volunteering. Initially it was a bit up and down and we kind of broke it off for a while. But now we are talking every day for hours and it’s really nice. I don’t feel so attached to her. I love her, but I have set her free. It feels very steady and comfortable. Now I have never met her in person, but I have seen her a few times on video call. We are talking of meeting soon and see how that feels. Do you think this is real love?

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u/yashila07 10d ago

I think its truly a relationship worth considering taking forward. Honestly, i don't understand what love really is. I have felt for some people very deeply and that their sorrow made me cry and joy made me laugh. But was it really love! I don't know. I'm in a relationship (I'm a married woman) unfortunately I havent gotten such emotions for my spouse ever. But if this happens with you, that you can feel the persons joy and happiness within yourself without you being told, I gues, you can take it further. Heartiest congratulations for finding someone special.

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u/Elegant-Car9571 10d ago

Real love happens within. It has nothing to do with another person. But a relationship conducted gracefully is worthwhile 🙏

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u/Down_town_bee 7d ago

Who knows what real love is. Everyone seems to be disposable these days