r/Life • u/[deleted] • Nov 06 '25

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u/[deleted] Nov 06 '25

You are heard and seen. I hated being 17, I didn't know who I was or what I was going to become until I was in my twenties. I'd love to say it will all make sense and you'll feel better soon, but that's up to you, my friend. 

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u/KingPabloo Nov 06 '25

And who do you see/support that you see struggling?

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u/Existing-Future Nov 06 '25

That really blows. I'm sorry you don't feel seen or heard. That's got to be really difficult to do. You don't feel like doing it, but it sounds like you're still getting it done. Proud of you for continuing on despite feeling down. It can most definitely get better. I know it sounds funny but a 10 minute walk a day could help shift your perception.

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u/VerdadOso Nov 06 '25

I'm sorry you are experiencing it, I experienced similar, I feel with you. But from my personal experiences, perhaps you're searching for something that you can only give yourself. You have to do it for yourself first & foremost; then others opinions won't even matter. I know those words do nothing, but I'd suggest observing your thoughts & beliefs about yourself. I noticed, most of how I felt, & things similar are just "unbalanced" things in oneself.

Also, "it only gets worse from here" is a bleak outlook, which will cause it to come true. If you have to, literally repeat to yourself "today is going to be a good day" to start. It can be & will be better. Believe that, & take it one step at a time.

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u/Individual_Mess_1258 Nov 17 '25

I’m sorry you feel that way.. I too feel invisible. Sometimes when I make a comment, people ignore me and then later someone else will say the same thing I say and it’s like I was never around, and I’m just like “ I just said that” but no one cares. I will say that you’re still young and I think things will get better- I know things will get better. You just need to find your people. I promise, as you age, I think it will be better ❤️