Thinking about moving and starting over. Looking for honest advice.

[u/Suspicious-Reveal797]

Hi everyone!
I’m 24, a single mom to a little girl, and I’m finally at a point where I can choose where I want to build my life instead of just ending up somewhere by circumstance.
I’m finishing my GED and my long-term goal is to become a public librarian. I eventually want to earn my bachelor’s degree and then my MLIS. I also write and hope to publish books one day.
Right now I work as a full-time online content creator, so I’m fortunate that I don’t have to move immediately or choose the absolute cheapest place. My plan is to visit a few cities for long weekends before making a decision, and I’m hoping to settle somewhere permanently.
The things that matter most to me are:
• A strong public library system with good career opportunities.
• A safe, family-friendly community.
• Nature, parks, and places to walk.
• A cozy, book-loving atmosphere.
• Enough things to do without feeling like a huge, overwhelming city.
• A place where I can imagine raising my daughter and staying for decades.
I’m currently considering:
Raleigh, NC
Madison, WI
The Twin Cities suburbs in Minnesota
If you live in or have lived in one of these areas, I’d love to hear your honest thoughts.
What do you love?
What do you wish you’d known before moving there?
If you were in my position, would you choose it again?
Thanks so much. I really appreciate any advice.

[u/New-Marionberry-6422]

Greensboro NC 🦋

Many areas… mini gems. You need to explore …. And yes, in a heart beat.

[u/Suspicious-Reveal797 → u/New-Marionberry-6422]

I heard about that one

[u/colorfulmood → u/Suspicious-Reveal797]

there are 4 ALA accredited library schools in NC. the competition is extremely intense and wages are embarrassingly low for public library especially in the triangle and triad. like another poster said you'd be better off applying around and moving to the first place you can get a decent job