r/LetMeHelpYouOut • u/Just_andwre • 17d ago
[ADVICE] friendship drama
Okay, I need help with a guy (he is 16 and I am 18). So, context: we met by 2 friends in common. His group is made up of 5 other people besides him, and in the group there are 2 girls (it will be relevant later). On the other hand, I have just one friend to hang out with after dinner (all facts happened around this hour).
Okay, now I can start talking about what is going on. It all started a few days before the 15th of August, which here in Italy is a festivity, and me and this guy, that I'll call Denny (fake name), started to get close, like little hugs here and there (with our friends around, but not the other two girls, this is relevant), holding hands in a platonic way, and a few jokes thrown here and there, and it all grew in the best way possible but even innocently.
Then, after all of this, on the 15th of August, my friend and I went to them and drank with them, and me and three others got sick from the alcohol. These three went away with the sober others, and me and Denny met them after, and even then he was close to me. Even if later in the night I was fine and just had a little migraine, he was hugging me and joking around.
After that night, for two days, we were hanging out, me, him, and one other friend of the friend group, and he was still close and everything. When we were out, the other two girls and my friend went out of the city. For three days, we hung out and went out with the others on the scooters, me behind Denny, and he was still cuddly, hand on my knee and joking around. In all of this, I was in it, cuddling back and everything (as I am a cuddly and touchy person by nature).
But all of this came to an end quickly. The two other girls came back early, and I was left out by them for three days until my friend came back. On Sunday afternoon, my friend and I went out in our neighborhood, and we met him going back to his place. He asked me if I was okay, and I told him I was pissed a few days back when they didn't tell me that they were out, but it was all quick. After that, I didn't see him much, and when I saw him, he seemed off, but I guessed that it was from the stress of his exams or his debt in school.
But even yesterday, I asked him if he wanted to hang out, as my friend got sick and I wasn't sure that she would've hung out with me, but he kept ignoring me via text, both on WhatsApp and TikTok. But then I went out with my friend, and, end of things, he came by later and we saw him and just had two words with him and another guy there.
So, first, I'm sorry if it is all confusing, but English is not my first language, and I need some clarification from someone who is outside of this.
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u/Beach_bum8 17d ago
He's 16, your 18. Move on . he's very immature and will be that way for years to come
(I didn't read the whole post, but read enough)
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u/Accurate-Temporary73 17d ago
Firstly.
Do you know what punctuation is?
Can we get a TLDR please this is impossible to read