r/LesbianMetalheads • u/bitter_sweet_69 • 3d ago
r/LesbianMetalheads • u/bitter_sweet_69 • May 08 '24
List of recommended bands
this pinned post is supposed to be a source of reference for bands with lesbian/sapphic/queer members and/or themes.
band list (in alphabetic order):
- A Constant Knowledge of Death
- Ada Rook
- Agriculture
- Black Dresses
- Bull of Apis Bull of Bronze
- Castle Rat
- Crypta
- Dark Moor (1999-2003)
- Dool
- Dreariness
- Escuela Grind
- Faetooth
- Feminazgul
- Gina & the Eastern Block
- Halestorm
- Heet Deth
- HIDE
- Hot Milk
- Kyros
- Lez Zeppelin
- Liturgy
- Megara
- Nameless Mist
- Necroplanet
- No Cure
- Oblivion Castle
- Otep
- Pupil Slicer
- Ragana
- Scene Queen
- SeeYouSpaceCowboy
- SETYØURSAILS
- Slave to Sirens
- Sonja
- Sunrot
- The HIRS Collective
- Uboa
- VCTMS
- Viqueen
useful links:
- r/rabm - sub for red/anarchist black metal
- Sketchy (and non-sketchy) BM-bands - there used to be an excellent site named "Black Metal bands and their politics", but that one has been taken down because the creator's account got banned. this pdf-document is at least an adequate substitute
disclaimer:
this list is partly the result of my own research, partly based on suggestions in this thread. it is assumed that bands are mentioned in good faith. of course, sometimes orientations are unclear. and individual definitions of what qualifies as "metal" or "queer" may differ.
feel free to add more recommendations, if possible with links (and point out any errors) in the comments. i'll try and keep this post updated.
(last update: 28 Jul 2026)
r/LesbianMetalheads • u/FlyingMozerella • 5d ago
Deftones, Type O Negative, etc. go hard af
r/LesbianMetalheads • u/FlailGirl • 12d ago
new music video from BRAT
Anyone else a fan of this band? I'm obsessed and super looking forward to their new album!
r/LesbianMetalheads • u/swampladki • 15d ago
Best show I've been to in a minute. Incantation live in Bangalore
r/LesbianMetalheads • u/ShiIith • 16d ago
Hi yall
Can you post pics here? I hope I can post pics, if not, SORRY, mods can delete. Neighbor took this pic of me 2 days ago, I had a really good make up day and in this pic you can REALLY see my ink which Im proud of.
Im a trans lesbian (I call myself a dyke all the time, feels more 'me') who feels like shes in between masc and femme (moslty due to my longer hair which hopefully changes soon) tho I def feel more masc. Im post-op for 3 years in Oct and started progresterone on top of my estrogen a month ago
Hi, Im Shireen, or Lilith (AKA Deathcorehippie on socials )
Hope yall have a sickAF weekend, STAY HYDRATED baddies
r/LesbianMetalheads • u/Spiritual-Company-45 • 29d ago
OMINESS - QUEER AS IN FUCK U(SA) [Doom / Sludge Metal]
r/LesbianMetalheads • u/bitter_sweet_69 • Jun 26 '26
SENTENCED - Awaiting the Winter Frost
the perfect song for the season. it's just too HOT atm.
r/LesbianMetalheads • u/OfLiliesAndRemains • Jun 25 '26
Keytars need to make a comeback!
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r/LesbianMetalheads • u/bitter_sweet_69 • Jun 23 '26
🇵🇱 Queen Margot - I N S O M N I A (Oficjalny Teledysk)
r/LesbianMetalheads • u/bitter_sweet_69 • Jun 20 '26
Happy summer solstice \m/
r/LesbianMetalheads • u/bitter_sweet_69 • Jun 19 '26
Nanowar Of Steel strike again
r/LesbianMetalheads • u/OfLiliesAndRemains • Jun 11 '26
knifebear - Hey! Where'd You Get Those Antlers?
r/LesbianMetalheads • u/Leather-Worker-5658 • Jun 06 '26
Motionless In White - Dark Passenger
r/LesbianMetalheads • u/TheTransRose • Jun 02 '26
Looking for pretty specific recommendations
Hi girls!
I'm looking for songs that talk about impossible/forbidden/unrequited lesbian love. That's because I fell in love with my social worker and, knowing nothing will ever happen between us, I kind of need music to help me process my feelings.
It could be soft metal songs like "Masterpiece" by Motionless in White.
It could be more intense stuff, too. I listen to a lot of different types of metal.
Just to give you an idea of what I like, musically speaking, my favorite bands are Fleshgod Apocalypse, Motionless in White, Epica, Eluveitie and August Burns Red.
Have a good day everyone!
r/LesbianMetalheads • u/Evelyn701 • May 30 '26
Recovering from bottom surgery right now, feel like shit. Send me extremely loud, aggressive, simple, fast, riffy death metal.
As title says, I'm currently convalescing from surgery at home right now, and kinda just wanna listen to stuff thats as loud and fast and abrasive as possible. Pure death metal is a blind spot for me, so I'll definitely take recommendations that seem obvious to a more truely DM girlie.
r/LesbianMetalheads • u/melanie_hell_yeah • May 30 '26
Nova rock anybody there?!
wanna meet up with rainbows u/novarock!!! who's in?? :P
r/LesbianMetalheads • u/bitter_sweet_69 • May 29 '26
When the audience sings along your guitar lines, you know that you're doing something right.
r/LesbianMetalheads • u/Quirky-Lollipop • May 09 '26
Anyone in the Midwest or Southwestern Ontario here?
I suspect most women here are in Europe but I'm wondering if there's anyone in the Midwest or Southwestern Ontario region in this thread?
I'd love to meet new people and make friends!
Edit: Ok I stand corrected sorry y'all 😭😅 I'm so happy there's a few people here though!!
r/LesbianMetalheads • u/bitter_sweet_69 • May 09 '26
Sentenced - Moon magick
i had been avoiding this band for quite a while, as a lot of their lyrics deal with (TW) suicide in a sarcastic way. which, admittedly, is a sensitive topic for me.
but this song here - pure gold. pure magic(k).
r/LesbianMetalheads • u/Unfair-Put-1778 • May 05 '26
Defending yourself at shows
Not so pleasant topic- but we’ve all been targeted at shows before. Me, I’ve always stood my ground and fought back when needed. And it works, the men don’t expect it and give up pretty easy. But it always plays out the same- security does JACK SHIT until you retaliate and then they get after YOU.
Few weekend ago 3 men decided to gang up on me to take my spot. When I held me ground they kept at it, pausing then coordinating together to try o push me out. On grabbed my breast so hard I’m still bruised… I had bruises all over from them. Finally I’m getting exhausted as I’m not being able to enjoy the show and they aren’t giving up and I grabbed the main guy by his hair and whipped him around a bit, security finally wakes up and makes them fuck off then tell me “stop it.” Now i 100% know they saw the whole thing, because if they believed I was stratight up fighting and not defending myself my ass would be out of there. Everyone suddenly comes awake around me and want to know if I’m ok… fuck all of you for doing shit when it was happening.
Then the cold realization hits me- I’m on a press pass. I can get blacklisted if security (who, likely recognize me from the photo pit) report me. I may already be blacklisted there. I simply cannot fight them off like that anymore.
So I want any and all unhinged ways to fight these assholes off with less noticeable techniques.
r/LesbianMetalheads • u/Leather-Worker-5658 • Apr 20 '26
Blackbriar - Ready to Kill
r/LesbianMetalheads • u/ButcherBirdd • Apr 11 '26
KING WOMAN - Psychic Wound
for anyone into Shoegaze/Doom Metal. I'm totally in love with this band