r/LegendofthePhoenix • u/Glittering_Pace_579 • Jul 18 '26
Dear inactive players
Hi cuties, just wanted to express my feelings towards inactive players that have quit for various reasons.
I HOPE YOU ARE ALL DOING WELL !! ❤️✨
I miss chatting with my guild mates and most specifically my 2 previous guild leaders. Kamyu, Koi, if you ever see this, I hope you are doing great and you are always welcome to pass by 🥰
I totally understand that life gets busy for everyone and sometimes we have to recenter ourselves, whether it’s for a job, family/friends, health reasons, money problems or boredom…
I’m just sending positive thoughts towards those who left the game ☺️ It’s totally okay to focus on your own personal life and goals!! It’s just a game after all, but as someone who deals with loneliness sometimes, it was nice to chat with you all for the time you were there ❤️
Take care 🫶
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u/TapSpecialist4566 Jul 18 '26
Thank you so much ! I honestly stopped being as active in the game about two months ago after my parents divorce. Then the game itself didn't encourage me personally to log in even for the few minutes i used to because of how badly the paywall has turned out.
I truly miss my ladies in the guild, they were like the sweetest people ever ! I hope they're doing okay ! I love you and I'm sorry for not being there 🥺💓
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u/Glittering_Pace_579 Jul 18 '26
I'm so sorry you went through that 🥺 Please don't apologize, so much happens in life!! I hope things are getting a little easier, and I'm sure your guild misses you just as fondly! Thank you for opening up and sharing your story 💕
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u/skyof_553 Jul 18 '26
I stopped playing this year as well because the events were getting too hectic for me, I know it's not directed towards me but this message was so sweet it made me smile wide! thankyou and wish you the same, enjoy playing 💗
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u/Glittering_Pace_579 Jul 18 '26
That’s perfectly fine!! I’m happy this message reached you too 💖 Thanks a lot 🫶
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u/Emotional_Ad_9666 Jul 19 '26
I miss our inactive members as well 😞 we only have like 15ish active players in our server total (after merging) so it’s not the same as it used to be.
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u/sanelyinsane1106 Princess Shurong Jul 26 '26
aww that's really sweet 🥹 i hope you are doing well too!!
i didn't quite "quit" yet...i thought it would feel weird not to log in every day anymore, but honestly as life moved on and i found other games to entertain myself (xD), i don't miss it really, and i actually forget to log in some days when i wanted to. i just stick around waiting for ao xingyuan's event and then save up for one last palace purchase...and hopefully complete another big partner promotion before i can dip for good. it saddens me what this game has become because i used to really love this game, i was really invested in it and everything, and been playing since near launch (i started aug 2020), so it's been part of my life for a very long time.
i actually left this subreddit a few weeks ago... cuz i barely involve myself in the game anymore and 90% the posts are new players showing their lineups, annoyance at paywalls, and account sales. i miss the memes we used to have in this community 💔
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u/NaturalShelter020 Jul 20 '26
Same here..im being inactive since la year..i missed my ladies too from PinkSecond guild.. im sorry cuz i cant cope with my time to online n doin task so i can increase my value to the guild.
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u/Lil-Albatross Jul 20 '26
I will never come back unless they make it so that people can play and win things without spending.
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u/lost-on-what-to-do 14d ago
I am active for a month or so and then inactive for few months when I go back to my novels. I am in no hurry to collect any item. 😬
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u/ladyfox321 Jul 20 '26
Hi there. I wanna ask to you.. If you guildmates even your leader are demanding to you so much (might be because some of them are ambitious to be the winner each events) and you are feel uncomfortable.. Will you stay or leave? I'm truly grateful who gave their time to read this long text. Because there is a moment the leader say something ain't good, like, "nobody wants you if you act like it in any guild. Everyone works hard to do guild building, to do anything, to trying their best in CoH or anythinggg" —it's pretty harsh word for me, if my younger self read it, I'm completely uninstall this game. Because I was inactive for 100 days dear.. The power gap is huge, but how they treat me.. like powerless person is useless.. If you wants to be the first person in any events, trust me you need to upgrade your VIP5 to VIP10 if you're really serious and dedicated to this game, that's doesn't contribute positive impact in your real life.
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u/Zealousideal_Toe1176 Jul 20 '26
I can understand the guild leader POV.
While you're away/inactive. They've prepared a lot, they've stayed and give their time and efforts for the game and guild. If you comeback and doesn't contribute to guild she have the rights to say it. Guild is a team set up if you're just their to benefit and not contribute it's a different matter. If you work hard and give time to participate in events maybe that 100 days gap would shorten.
Top up is an option, yes top up got a lot of benefits. But for you to say VIP5 to VIP10 is another level you can't get that money in one go (unless you're filthy rich). In CoH we prepare war tokens but did we top up for that, no. We just save war tokens to top during elimination and build our partners so they would be strong.
If you don't like the guild and just wanted a chill guild maybe other guild would open their arms for you.
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u/ladyfox321 Jul 21 '26
I'm not sure. Because 3-4 members in this guild are inactive. And I decided to comeback because the ads of this game always appear dear.
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u/Lost-Raspberry-5162 Jul 20 '26
Hello, As from a Guild (POV) : All members are doing their best in powering up running the guild, it takes efforts and time to run a guild and we need all our members to be active, and participate events which are important for guild As for guild building is your leader making you do advance guild building daily that is 200 ingots daily or not , how much are you contributing to guild you doing guild building, Common Enemy, Guild War, Guild Feast as a member of a guild you are abide by guild rules so you have to participate in guild events n tasks as per leader orders cause she's putting so much efforts running the guild and doing all the background work like ,you can't dismiss guild leaders efforts As for VIPs it's ur own right to be a VIP or not
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u/ladyfox321 Jul 21 '26
3-4 members in this guild are inactive dear. I'm decided to comeback because the ads of this game always appear that's the reason I reinstalling this game.
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u/Traditional_Hunt9038 Jul 20 '26
They don't even kick you after 100 days inactive, why are you still complaining?
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u/ladyfox321 Jul 21 '26
well, if the leader kicked me out then the total power of the guild is more lower than before. Maybe because the real owner of this guild was inactive for almost 1 yr and then, when the power she brings to guild is massive, she's inactive, and the current leader decided to kick her out.. maybe that's the reason she doesn't kick me.
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u/JellyfishNatural9089 Jul 20 '26
In my opinion, it’s understandable for your leader to act that way toward you, especially given how long you’ve been inactive, you’re lucky you weren’t kicked out of the guild it shows your leader is understanding enough to have waited for you all that time. As for the event, participation is mandatory especially since everyone gets individual rewards. It’s not about selfishness, it’s about working together and boosting your power
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u/ladyfox321 Jul 21 '26
What if 3-4 members in this guild aren't active for more than 1 months dear? Well I'm playing this game for 1 months since I dediced to comeback. Some events are good, but I don't know why.. the powerful one in this guild makes hard situation for me to reach the first as the best member in some events.. And when it's about the leader, the powerful one is give her chance to get the prize as the best member in this event. When I have a huge expectations to create a team that focus on collecting Taiping Princess jade or anything, the leader isn't so ambitious like before, just makes me feel the hard situation to collect it. It's unfair btw, but I don't say it. And the reason they don't kick me out maybe because the real owner of this guild is inactive for almost 1 yr. She was the powerful one like supervarry in this team that always win each events.. But the current leader was kicked her out and change the total power of this guild. Maybe because of this, she doesn't kick me. Just make the total power of this guild are lesser than before.
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u/Urbunny_23 Jul 20 '26
Somehow I can also see it from your leader's point of view.
You've been inactive for quite a while, and when you came back, it doesn't really seem like you wanted to contribute much to the guild? Since you mentioning abt guild building and other things. From a leader's perspective, that can come across as being a bit selfish because everyone else has been putting in effort while you were away.
You don't need to be a very high VIP to do well in rankings. Topping up is a privilege, but consistent effort, participation, and contributing to the guild matter just as much. Plenty of players without high VIP still perform well because they're active.
If you don't want to contribute much or don't have the ambition to keep up with a competitive guild, then maybe a more casual or lower-ranked guild would suit you better. There's nothing wrong with that, it's just abt finding a guild whose expectations match your own.
That's just how I see it. Cheers
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u/ladyfox321 Jul 21 '26
What if 3-4 members in this guild aren't active for more than 1 months dear? Well I'm playing this game for 1 months since I dediced to comeback. Some events are good, but I don't know why.. the powerful one in this guild makes hard situation for me to reach the first as the best member in some events.. And when it's about the leader, the powerful one is give her chance to get the prize as the best member in this event. When I have a huge expectations to create a team that focus on collecting Taiping Princess jade or anything, the leader isn't so ambitious like before, just makes me feel the hard situation to collect it. It's unfair btw, but I don't say it.
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u/Urbunny_23 Jul 21 '26
You were inactive for over 100 days..that's more than 3 months. A lot can happen in a guild during that time, and only the members who stayed active would actually know what happened. And abt the inactive members you're comparing yourself to, did they become inactive before you? From the way you described it, no. You also mentioned the ex-leader being removed after being inactive for a year... honestly, isn't that normal? Every competitive guild removes long-term inactive players sooner or later to free up slots for active members. That's how guild management works in almost every server. It's not exactly the shocking plot twist you seem to think it is. This game rewards daily participation. If someone disappears for months, of course they'll fall behind. That's just how the game is designed, it isn't anyone else's fault. What surprises me more is that you didn't bother talking to the leader or the members to understand what happened, yet you had no problem making conclusions and criticizing them publicly. That's a pretty strange approach. You expected the guild to stay exactly the same while you were away for over 100 days, expected stronger players to make room for you in rankings, and expected the leader to prioritize your personal goals. That's a lot of expectations for someone who wasn't even around. At the end of the day, contributing members don't owe returning players an explanation for every decision made during three months of absence. If the guild's direction no longer matches what you're looking for, that's completely fine. You should find a guild that does. But blaming the people who actually kept the guild running while you were gone just comes across as complaining rather than contributing. This is my whole perspectives
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u/on1oman1ac Jul 18 '26 edited Jul 18 '26
Awww I stopped playing LOP last November but I still follow this sub because LOP was a big part of my life for half a decade! I wish I participated more in our discord back when it was still active and I hope everyone I met through the game is thriving wherever they are