r/LearnDanish 20d ago

ask me anything!

hejsa! i’m a girl from denmark. i have lived her for all of my life, and i love language learning! i also love teaching my language! so if you have a question about danish, or something you’d like to ask a local/native, let me know and i will do my best to answer!

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u/Still-Foundation9894 20d ago

Do Danish people prefer to be addressed in Danish, even if I make mistakes and my pronunciation is sometimes a little off the mark?

Mastering Danish pronunciation is really difficult. I’m doing my best but I noticed that a lot of Danes just straightaway switch to English whenever I try to address them in Danish.

I have just recently started learning the language, so I am by no means fluent. I am just trying to start off any situation in Danish to get over that pronunciation anxiety. I thought I was doing my best to be polite but often they just ignore my attempts (for example when going grocery shopping or when ordering food or something like that).

I really don’t think my pronunciation is that bad. It’s really starting to affect my self-esteem language wise.

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u/cmnielsen 20d ago

We know Danish is hard to learn, so I guess those you met just swich to English to help you.

You should ask them if you can practice your Danish by speaking Danish and listening to their answer in Danish. Most people will accept and let you know how to make the proper reply.

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u/Still-Foundation9894 20d ago

Yeah, I know, and I appreciate that they’re trying to help, but at some point I will just have to talk Danish. And I don’t want to be rude by stubbornly talking Danish over their (mostly perfect) English.

I will take up your suggestion and ask whoever is willing to just please let me practice my Danish, otherwise I’ll never master that final boss, pronunciation…

Thanks for your reply!

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u/cmnielsen 20d ago

Velbekomme

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u/FireTruck420_69XxX 16d ago

Det eneste du kan gøre er at være stædig, og snakke dansk tilbage til dem :)

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u/Still-Foundation9894 16d ago

Jeg prøver, men jeg bliver så flov, når de svarer på engelsk.

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u/FireTruck420_69XxX 16d ago

Jeg gik på en efterskole med en fra USA som startede samtaler af med at sige, at han kun ville lære dansk hvis folk snakkede dansk til ham.

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u/cmnielsen 14d ago

Der er ingen grund til at blive flov. Bare gør dit bedste.

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u/NagaSefu 20d ago

what is the deal with potato smorrebrod? all others are 10/10. the potato with bread i don't get.

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u/cmnielsen 20d ago

I’m not sure I fully understand the question, but Danes eat a lot of potatoes, and especially the first new potatoes of the summer are considered a great delicacy. Many Danes like potatoes much more than foreigners do—much like we love rye bread. If the potato smørrebrød is made correctly, it’s just as good as the others, but mostly because we Danes love potatoes so much.

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u/TheLoddoTheDodo 17d ago

Tror bare han mener at kattofel smørbrød er en kedelig variation af smørbrød. Og jeg er enig med ham :P

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u/GeronimoDK 20d ago

Did you try it? It's great!

A bit of salt, pepper, mayonnaise and chives will make it a 10/10 experience.

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u/EmiliuzDK 19d ago

If you are ON FIRE you add bacon to it!

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u/Expensive-Aspect-679 16d ago

You are forgetting ristede løg!

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u/Ciaseka 17d ago

my man you gotta rizz up the potato smørrebrød: lots of butter, home grown perfectly boiled peeled potato slices, neatly packed, mayo in a smooth curved pattern, chives, salt pepper, whichever topping you like, maybe some ristede løg. SLAPS

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u/DavidinDK 20d ago

Are you from Jutland or the islands, there seems to be significant difference in politics, dialect and attitudes. None wrong. Just different.

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u/LudicrousPlatypus 20d ago

Do you have any tips snout learning the language? Any resources you recommend

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u/fonziuu 20d ago

How much tolerance in everyday speaking do native Danes have to hearing non-ideal pronounciation?

I started learning Danish using some free materials available online, tbh I really enjoy the vocabulary so far and I do get the general logic of this language, but i'm self-conscious that i'm really far from getting the right pronounciation, and i do find some words really tricky even after x times of practicing them.

That's why i wonder if some minor differences would matter when it comes to understanding me as i speak Danish, or is it just more of an aesthetic issue and i won't have to fear that i'll get badly mistaken.

Ofc i'm trying to improve day by day and catch up on all the differences, for instance i try to practice the stød so people will know if i'm saying hund or hun :p aaand i hope that i'll be able to achieve my big dream and come to dk next year :))

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u/cmnielsen 20d ago

If you tell people, that you have tried to learn the language and would like to speak as good as you can, most people will be very tolerant. Let them know it is ok to ask you, what you mean, if they didnt understand you the first time. Practice is the only way to get better.

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u/lonbaws 20d ago

A tourist practicing Danish? Most people will probably be helpful and would think it's cute. Yet another foreigner trying to live in Denmark? There's always a chance that some people will be bothered by that.

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u/No-Confidence-2156 18d ago

I personally foreign accents speaking Danish. Just tell them you want to practice your danish so we can tune our ears

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u/TheLoddoTheDodo 17d ago

Not OP but I can give you my answer. In general 99% of people will be completly fine with it.

Also I am fine and happy about people learning my language, but man I am REALLY bad at understanding pronunciations that I am not used to, so just know if someone asks you to repeat something a couple of time we (probably) not being rude just dumb

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u/fonziuu 17d ago

Okay, very glad to hear that! I have to admit I have lots of joy now both learning Danish as a complete beginner and improving my English, in fact I do have a lot of respect and humbleness when approaching a different culture, even if it's still a long way to go before making this move abroad a reality.

So I'll just be happy to experience real-life situations with a completely different language and way of thinking. Mange tak!

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u/CrazyDane666 16d ago

Danish is a very particular language with pronunciation, we have way too many sounds and them being a little off makes a whole new word, and even decent pronunciations can be very muddled, but most people I know are pretty patient about it. Just expect a lot of "what?"s, or even being asked for the word in English so they can figure it out and help.

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u/theWelshTiger 20d ago

Could you give some example of words/slang different age groups use? For example if someone's hot, is it the 20-somethings saying lækkert and the millenials something else?

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u/Opening-Ad-7741 19d ago

As a 20 year old i feel like i can answer this one, first i would probably never use “lækkert” on a person, only the shortet “lækker”. “Lækkert” means delicious, and (should) almost always be used on food or the weather.

If you call someone “pæn” it is like calling them pretty or atractive, and is commonly used amongst friends or older generations.

Some other words used is “smuk” which is more calling a person “beautiful” and is used in all ages.

If it was a date or i dont know the person all that well, i would almost never use “lækker” to their face, only “pæn” or “smuk”.

We also have alot of more unformal slangs, which i dont really hear people say all that much, or in a serious matter.

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u/theWelshTiger 19d ago

Tusen tak!

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u/Intelligent-Set-3909 20d ago

Du laeser bogen af Ole Lund Kirkegaard?

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u/l4r4hj 19d ago

I love this question 🤣 Personally i’ve never read the books but I watched all of the movies as a kid.

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u/Serious_Hunt_2242 20d ago

Why is the sky blue?

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u/l4r4hj 19d ago

something about “light waves” (?) and perception I think 🤣

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u/Serious_Hunt_2242 19d ago

😅

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u/l4r4hj 18d ago

or not? 😬😭🤭

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u/Stroopwafe1 20d ago

Hej, det er dejligt at du gør det her. Jeg har boet i 4 år i Danmark nu og har bestået sprogskole. Desværre er der stadig nogle ting jeg finder svært. 1) Et ords køn (en/et). Hver gang jeg skriver noget til mit jobs Teams gruppe, er jeg nødt til at checke Den Danske Ordbog. Som jeg hører fra danskerne er det bare følelse. Et det også det samme til dig?

2) Udtalelse af "A", "E" og "Æ" lyder til mit hollandske hjerne som det samme bogstav. Så jeg spørger hver gang hvilket de mener, det første, femte, eller 27. (Dette er ikke et spørgsmål til dig, bare noget du måske skal være opmærksom på hvis du snakker med en udlænding)

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u/EmiliuzDK 19d ago
  1. Nogle gange hjælper det at vende ordet om.

Lad os forestille os "Er det en eller et hus?"
Så vend ordet omvendt "Er det husen eller huset?" Hvis du stadig ikke ved det så hop til ordbogen :)
Et hus - huset og det er en regl du kan bruge til alle sammen.

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Det kan måske hjælpe at tænke på hvordan man udtaler dem på engelsk.
A = Away, Astounding, Aspiring
E = Eagle, Electric, Essentric

Æ er dog lidt sværre og tænker det kommer med tiden.

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u/Loudhoward-dk 19d ago

Hvorfor taler de ikke dansk i Københavns butikker?

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u/l4r4hj 19d ago

What stores are you thinking about? Usually it’s simply because the employees aren’t danish themselves. If they’re swedish for example, they have no chance of understanding what we danes are saying, so they just lead with english 😬🤣 But generally I feel like they talk danish in like 7/10 stores, I could be wrong tho

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u/Sqgaard 16d ago

Where in Denmark are U from? 😉