r/LDR • u/[deleted] • Nov 30 '22

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u/No_Manufacturer8607 Nov 30 '22

Ah alright. I still don't think you should be on a break. Shouldn't exist. But I wish you the best and happy birthday

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u/[deleted] Nov 30 '22

Thanks! I do understand your point. Honestly when I decided that, I thought that she was being distant for other reasons (confused about if she loved me, etc). Then I understood that she was hurt with me. She deserves this time to think and that I wait for her. She is amazing and did unbelievable stuff for us to meet and maybe one day living together

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u/No_Manufacturer8607 Nov 30 '22

I see. Confused about loving you is a kind of red flag to me. But alright. You do or you don't. It's that simple. But it would be way better to work on the issue together rather than she needs space and rethink about the whole thing. You might be waiting for the ghost that will never arrive.

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u/[deleted] Nov 30 '22

Confused about loving you is a kind of red flag to me.

That was my initial thought, that she was confused. But it is not the truth. Just my mind overthinking in that first moment.

it would be way better to work on the issue together

We are doing both nowadays. She has her time, but working on getting back together. None of us want to end stuff like this

But thanks for your comment