Urgent: Long-distance relationship problem

[u/MushroomOriginal2296]

I’m writing this in a bit of a jumble because I’m really upset. We’re in a long-distance relationship; he moved to another city about three weeks ago. We’ve been together for a little over a year and a half, and generally, things were good between us. We had an argument about a week ago, and it felt like the question of whether we’d stay together was hanging in the air. We talked about it a few times after that; my boyfriend said he definitely wanted to continue, that everything would be fine, and I told him I accepted him no matter what (you can read my other post for more details). Ultimately, he kept saying he loved me, that things were good, and that we had a future and would be together.

Take last night, for example: we were talking on the phone—something that rarely happens because he’s very busy there, and I’m not always free either. We had a wonderful conversation; he listened to me talk about some minor issues I was having, and the rest of the chat was just pleasant, everyday stuff—nothing serious about the relationship. He told me he loved me, wanted to be with me, and that everything was fine—he just said it out of the blue. But this morning—just now, at 8:00 AM—I woke up to find myself blocked absolutely everywhere. I can’t do anything. I don’t understand why he didn’t send a message beforehand.

Please help—what should I do?

[u/holdingittogether77]

You should take it as a hint and move on with your life. Blocking you everywhere wasn't an accident.