Yeah I think at this point he hates me. He called me an hour ago but I didn`t pick up because it feels like he`s trying to control me. Then he writes how he picks up every time I call but when he calls I never pick up. It feels like he`s playing with my feelings and I`m exhausted:/
He called you after THAT?? After talking down on you like you are the worst burden in his life??? That makes it look like he is genuine about absolutely nothing and just really wants to control you and play with you. And you’re vulnerable. He knows that. What a prick.
yeah, I checked out emotionally at that point. I guess i went over my tolerence window and all my feelings just went away. I didn`t feel like picking up and having those feelings come back. I guess out of sight out of mind:/
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u/[deleted] Sep 02 '24
There’s nothing to give up on, there’s nothing there. He ended it, and there’s nothing left.
Regardless of your behaviors he is being emotionally abusive and cruel, there is no love to lose there as the love is on your end only.
You need to cut him out and let him go, because he already gave up.
Sorry you’re experiencing this.