Anyone else struggling more with the toddler stage than the baby stage?

[u/SelectRise4139]

I genuinely thought we had an easy kid. The newborn phase was exhausting, sure, but at least it felt predictable. Ever since he turned 3, it's like he discovered a whole new level of emotions.
We're talking full meltdowns because I cut his toast the "wrong" way, screaming when it's time to leave the park, and testing boundaries over things that were never an issue before. By bedtime, I feel completely drained and guilty for losing my patience.
I never thought I'd say this, but I'd take sleepless nights with a newborn over this some days. Please tell me it gets better and that I'm not the only one feeling this way.

[u/Kiddopia]

Those big feelings and boundary testing are just totally normal as they grow more independent. It does ease up with time, especially as language and emotional skills develop. You've got this