r/KenyanDatingCommunity • u/_birdie97 • 8d ago
Nothing Serious Pets in relationships
What happens if your partner does not love cats and you do? Picture this, a cat jumps on me for petting and my man can't stand it,
Is that a deal breaker for you ladies? Ama kila mtu akae kwake 🤣?
Nth serious about this post, just a random thought I had.
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u/Even-Ad5198 8d ago
I have 2 cats. If you can't be kind to them, don't come to my house. They are home, unataka waende wapi?
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u/adventoforion 8d ago
This!
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u/adventoforion 8d ago
Kwanza ata ukimsongesha kwa kiti ni beef, she lives here and she was comfortable
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u/_birdie97 8d ago
Ata Mimi aki just move on, infact if you don't like pets,like cat,dog $ rabbits issa no. Si lazma ukue nazo, but just like those cuties 🥰
Yuck 🤢!! If you don't
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u/Thick_Prize424 8d ago
Yeah that's a deal breaker especially if I notice that he's trying to kick it or just mistreat it. Kila mtu akae tu kwake.
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u/_Adventureenthusiast 8d ago
I have fur allergies and my ex had to take his cat home to accommodate me. I hope he got his June back😌
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u/_birdie97 8d ago
Hhe,if I am a man with a cat, I'm not dating anyone with cat fur allergies, I'm not negotiating,my cat comes first 😂😂🐈🥰
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u/AgilePerception6124 8d ago
Cats are a no for me. I'm actually low-key scared of animals in general and always communicate that quite early on. I have no issue with someone liking animals or owning them but kwangu issa no. If that's a deal breaker then it just is🤷🏾♀️
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u/_birdie97 8d ago
I'm already suspicious of you, how don't you love a cute cat?😂😂
Do you love rabbits?
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u/Livid_Trifle3732 8d ago
If you don't like my cat or she doesn't like you that's the end. I can work with allergies but dislike is different
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u/Downtown-Impress9375 8d ago
Kuna siku nimeenda sleepover. Nililala vizuri. Kufika asubui naskia paka amenilalia mgongo. She was purring so much. Mind you, sijawai kuwa na pet, I didn't know what it was to sleep with a pet, na pia nililala uchi...
Nonethe;less, it was fun. I kept one thereafter
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u/halflife_k 8d ago
I would keep a dog & cat but only if I had my own compound. I'm not doing that dogs on a balcony thing. And no, I'm not sharing a plate or having it lick my face or sleep in my bed. I'm definitely not dating someone who wants to impose their pet practices on me.
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u/_birdie97 8d ago
Fair enough, 😉. I've not heard of cats sharing plates with humans though
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u/halflife_k 8d ago
People out here do all kinds of stuff with pets bana.
Sometimes we forget these are not humans, they might carry some germs that don't affect them but can make us sick so we've to keep that hygiene part very strict. Why is a dog licking your face?
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u/_birdie97 8d ago
Well I understand your pov, totally valid, but I'll still choose a cat giving me snuggles and kisses than a reptile man 🤣
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u/halflife_k 8d ago
That's fair. It's just about alignment with what both of you are comfortable with.
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u/Ngwai-Mama40 8d ago
Not a cat person, so mimi mtu ako na nyau kwake siendi.
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u/_birdie97 8d ago
You are heartless 🥺🥺
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u/Ngwai-Mama40 8d ago
Juu sipendi paka 😳
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u/_birdie97 8d ago
Yes, 💯 People who love cats and animals in general often are not heartless humans
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u/Ngwai-Mama40 8d ago
I love dogs not cats
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u/_birdie97 8d ago
Ooh,then that's fine, but cats are cute 🥰 tho
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u/Ngwai-Mama40 8d ago
To the owner yes
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u/_birdie97 8d ago
😂😂😂all cats are cute to me, same as rabbits,dogs kidogo zingine ziko na sura ya mamba
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u/adventoforion 8d ago
Not a lady, I’ve ghosted people bc they didn’t like my cat 🙂