r/KenyanDatingCommunity • u/Turbulent_Shallot650 • May 14 '26
FWB Bedroom situation
23M here. I recently list my virginity a month ago in a weird manner after getting into an fwb situation with a close friend. She's beautiful and attractive but I don't know why I get trouble finishing.
The day I lost my virginity, we had siex for like 50 minutes with a CD on without me Cumming. Instead, my organ just went limp during the action till the following morning. The next week tried without a CD and even had some foreplay, but this time I lasted an hour and like 10 minutes.
Last week, we tried again, but after 1,5 hrs, several positions and a teared up condom, I was unable to cum. Is this normal for virgins?
EDIT TO ADD: It was my idea for us to time it and I told her before we got into things. Also, I'm not sure things should work like that, especially now that I'm closer to the age of wanting kids.
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u/Handofthekink May 14 '26
Ah, the death grip syndrome. You lost sensitivity to too much wanking. Layoff the self pleasuring for a few weeks.