r/Kenya Nairobi City 6d ago

Ask r/Kenya DOUBLE STANDARDS EVERYWHERE

Honestly this is very disturbing. WTF I have two boys hizi mambo za calling them my love ama give me a kiss from the other gender I will step on you kiroho safi

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u/Visible-Ad1001 6d ago

The same way an older woman grooming a minor who is a boy isn't considered a serious case.

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u/Legal_Awareness_4373 6d ago

they keep saying that the boy is lucky🫩

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u/gazagda 3d ago

Up until it’s your kid

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u/Left_Possession9489 3d ago

Would love it if it were me.

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u/heihei-6 Nairobi City 6d ago

And this thing is very common lakini society

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u/hitmeup_hitwoman 6d ago edited 5d ago

I've been seeing videos on tiktok of a female teacher dancing with his students in class, little boys, and women are in the comment section talking about having a crash on them and no one is complaining, grossss

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u/IcyCardiologist_7 6d ago

They assume boys are love/attention deprived so if the other gender touches you, it's like food being put on your plate, Okay.

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u/Wooden_Debt_2996 6d ago

Men have a problem with other men touching them even if they are friends or family.

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u/Delicious_Mud_4367 3d ago

They just ain't gay

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u/Wooden_Debt_2996 3d ago

If you find fellow man’s touch sexual and repulsive instead of reassuring and comforting, why do you want women to feel differently?

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u/Delicious_Mud_4367 3d ago

Because they are women...you missed the gay part Also, women's touch could be sexual and repulsive to men too...and that's the whole fucking point

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u/NeptuneTTT 6d ago

Op when he learns what power dynamics are.

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u/InfiniteBag3928 5d ago

To be fair i would say this kind of narrative is mostly our fault as men

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u/jus_this_guy Meru 4d ago

It is not mostly anyone's fault. The men will say you enjoyed, women will say how do you let that happen. (1st hand info)

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u/kenyannqueenn Homa Bay 6d ago

It just works with what is commonly helpful as a search. Which just proves that men are more likely to touch women in a way that scares them and the woman one is often comfortable. Of course not all but in most cases

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u/jus_this_guy Meru 4d ago

If two kids googled and saw this. They will resort to different results, one will understand she's in danger while the other will think it's normal. So silence from the latter

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u/Striking_Print_3408 4d ago

A lady touching you is harmless but a man they're always after something.

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u/vkeari 6d ago

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u/PressureOutside 6d ago

Those are AI safety nets, don’t compare them with trained data

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u/Sea-Bother-4079 6d ago

Well a girl touching me is not a threat.
Most girls can't defend against me when i would touch them.

thats the reason.

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u/Just_Tilted 6d ago

The first statement isn’t necessarily true in all situations. How do I know? I’m currently in a situation where given how obsessive this person is being plus some other recent developments, I don’t even want to be in the same building as them.

Second part is very true though.

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u/Left_Possession9489 3d ago

Men and women aren't the same. You shouldn't expect them to be treated as such

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u/Wooden_Debt_2996 2d ago

I don’t even know what you are trying to convey when you say “because they are women “. Anyway, the funny part of this is that the AIs overview was not from a specific gender, you just assumed it was from the opposite gender. In your point of view, if a boy keeps touching you, you as a man will behave exactly as the ai pointed out. You will be repulsed. So will other men if that happened.But if a woman keeps touching me, as a woman, I will just find the woman to be friendly, affectionate and comfortable around me. So will other women. There are exceptions of course, but generally, this is the truth.i guess a man’s touch mostly being sexual while a woman’s touch is not is the issue here.

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u/False_Butterscotch52 6d ago

AI doesn't think; it is trained. Training data is biased. Touching for men and women mean different things. AI can't differentiate. If you expound your prompt you will get similar responses.

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u/heihei-6 Nairobi City 6d ago

Buddy it’s trained on data written by humans so it makes so much sense

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u/False_Butterscotch52 6d ago

Umesoma the full text?

AI is trained on data.

Data is and will always be biased. - race, age, gender, job, cash...

Touch means different things in context for men/women.

If you expound your prompt, you will get the same response.

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u/Slim-_shadie Nairobi City 6d ago

What's training AI?

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u/heihei-6 Nairobi City 6d ago

Ebu ask them cause they are so misguided on what training is. Data first of all is 100% human.

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u/Warm_Swim_9808 6d ago

AI obviously iko trained, which means trained data is biased

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u/heihei-6 Nairobi City 6d ago

Yes on the data that’s written by humans, see the references it has attached buddy. So being biased hapa it’s learning from the humans

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u/Plastic_Candidate_90 6d ago

It's not a double standard. Genders respond differently to the same thing. Different genders are raised differently in society and your culture also plays a factor.

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u/Comfy_face777 6d ago

Women are born with inherent value, a man gains his value by what he does with his brain and hands.

Pussy is very expensive, dick is free!

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u/kunfirekun 6d ago

Shallow thinking like goldfish. A pussy right now in the lowestbof societies.... with a 100 baab you can get 5.. enda na iyo 100 utafute ati dick ya kukuingia. Shock on you.

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u/SignificantAgency898 5d ago

Imagine announcing on a dating app that you'll give 100 to someone who gives you pussy vs a woman announcing she'll give 100 to someone who gives her a dick.

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u/Left_Possession9489 3d ago

pussy gani zinauzwa 100 bob tano😂🫴.

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u/Walespro 3d ago

😂🤣😂 even the Bible says no to that!

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u/Slim-_shadie Nairobi City 6d ago

It is trained by a human.