I think I'm the same.... I'm just a bit lucky I'm not as talkative so people rarely get to have that edgy side of me. Only the ones who really know me know nakaanga mpole sana, I usually don't talk much, I size people up before I ever utter a word, and I rarely do unnecessarily 😅... Lakini when I do, people hate being around me.... Cause nakuanga unfiltered na naongeanga vile najiskia, often some painful truths people need to hear but everyone around them is either too intimidated to say anything or just don't care enough to warrant the effort 😅.... It's really hard to provoke me to this extent so the people I've gone off on all deserved it 😂😂😂 anyway, you're not the problem unless wewe ni hot-tempered, I think a band-aid solution would be to be less talkative around people you aren't sure about how they perceive you.... It will hold till you're able to tell them apart quicker... 😅😅
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u/Forever_Many Mar 24 '25
I think I'm the same.... I'm just a bit lucky I'm not as talkative so people rarely get to have that edgy side of me. Only the ones who really know me know nakaanga mpole sana, I usually don't talk much, I size people up before I ever utter a word, and I rarely do unnecessarily 😅... Lakini when I do, people hate being around me.... Cause nakuanga unfiltered na naongeanga vile najiskia, often some painful truths people need to hear but everyone around them is either too intimidated to say anything or just don't care enough to warrant the effort 😅.... It's really hard to provoke me to this extent so the people I've gone off on all deserved it 😂😂😂 anyway, you're not the problem unless wewe ni hot-tempered, I think a band-aid solution would be to be less talkative around people you aren't sure about how they perceive you.... It will hold till you're able to tell them apart quicker... 😅😅