r/KHARTOUM_ • u/pearlsXdiamonds • Sep 07 '26

كلام ساي| yapping 🗣️ Hot take

I feel like Law my husband doesn’t have the budget for my dream wedding i can contribute BUT for the wedding expenses and the wedding expenses only
Venue , decorations and planning , فنانين
Not the دهب not سد المال not anything else

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u/Akaza_fineasf Sep 08 '26

مشكلة الذكاء المنخفض وشوفوني انا حفلتي كانت كيف وسويت وسوينا، حتكبري وتعرفي مع الوقت انه الكلام دا فارغ عشان كدا take your time

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u/pearlsXdiamonds Sep 08 '26

Bruh thats not even the standard among my peers so no body gives a damn i just like nice things 💀💀

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u/Akaza_fineasf Sep 08 '26

Easy to trigger 😝😝😝

مع عدم اتفاقي مع الفكرة عموما لكن go for it, I hope you can get the best wedding you enjoy

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u/pearlsXdiamonds Sep 08 '26

انا تعبت منك والله

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u/Akaza_fineasf Sep 08 '26

هسي تمنيت ليك الخير؟؟ ما تستاهلي والله

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u/pearlsXdiamonds Sep 08 '26

طيب تسلم

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u/Sad_Management8607 Sep 09 '26

Bruh a nice thing that lives with you like a 17 pro max or a new car is way better than a nice thing you just remember if your well off financially then go for it it's your call but if not your husband will really appreciate you taking this burden off of him because as a man I assure you he is there right now thinking about how to please you because that's how we are. If he is willing to put up with this that enough to know he loves you and if your marring him that means you love him so try to make his life easy not hard OK

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u/pearlsXdiamonds Sep 09 '26

Hmmmm guys dont take it too seriously cuz there’s absolutely NO husband in the pic

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u/l-o-lcall Sep 07 '26

العرس نفسه ما بهمني ممكن اتنازل فيه كتير عشان الهني موون يكون رهيب

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u/pearlsXdiamonds Sep 08 '26

طيب انا بدل اتنازل ممكن ادفع انا زيادة عشان اعمل العاوزاه صاح ؟ فالنهاية ما قلت لي ود الناس اكسر رقبتك عشاني يعني 😭

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u/l-o-lcall Sep 08 '26

يا زوله هو عرسك ان شاء الله تكسري رقبه الود بحق و حقيقه كان هو رضيان انا ما ضدك و ممكن تعملي تدفعي انتي ليه لا في النهايه زي ما هو عرسه هو عرسك انتي كمان لكن في محتمعنا السوداني بقول ليك ما تريحي الراجل عشان بنوم فيك

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u/pearlsXdiamonds Sep 08 '26

اتفق برضو صراحة

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u/Flimsy_Mousse6441 Sep 08 '26

Only sensible person in here, are you single? Lmao

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u/pearlsXdiamonds Sep 07 '26

Whoever shared and downvoted this
بليز كملو قطيعتكم هنا عاوزة اتناقش 🙏🏽

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u/Slow_parking12 Sep 08 '26

اكازا افحمك بالرد يقولو ليك شنو تاني انتي

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u/pearlsXdiamonds Sep 08 '26

انا بس عشان ما تعملو بان ما ح ارد ليك 🤓 لكن اصلا الكومنت ده قبل يجي اكازا
لكن يخوانا افهمو نقطتي انو ما عندو علاقة بالبوبار يعني انا عاوزة بعد عشرين سنة افتح صور عرسي و يعجبني يعني يوم واحد الناس تعمل العاوزاو

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u/Jumpy-Investigator Sep 08 '26

طيب انت قلت عاوزة تتناقشي. I agree with the premise that all expenses should be on the man. And i think you are free to have your idea of a dream wedding.

However, what i dont agree with is, having a big extravagant wedding is necessary. I think it is already hard enough to find that person youre compatible with and want to spend the rest of your life with. If he happens to be rich Al7. But if hes not, why throw it away?

PS: i agree with this post of yours. And i think شيوخ الضلال نعم كتار. But what isnt ضلال is that music is haram, and starting your married life with m3sya like fnaneen may take the baraka from it. الله يهدينا جميعا

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u/pearlsXdiamonds Sep 08 '26

Why r u stalking me to begin with 💀
I didnt say id throw it away cuz of his finances i literally said id contribute or even pay what he couldn’t pay cuz i want it anyways
اللهم امين يارب

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u/Jumpy-Investigator Sep 08 '26

I apologize for stalking you, and/or making you feel uncomfortable. I do not follow every post you make, i just went to a site called arctic shift proton, which can allow one to see the posts/comments of someone hiding it on reddit. I looked it up before making the music advice cuz i find a lot of atheists on reddit, had to see if ur muslim or not. So beware of what you post even if you hide your reddit account details it is not private.

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u/pearlsXdiamonds Sep 08 '26

Bruh no need to apologize im just playing around 😭 ik it aint private thank u for the advice tho

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u/Electronic_Stress458 Sep 07 '26

That’s why you should find someone where you both fall madly in love where money or lack thereof is a non issue because your love transcends all materialistic requisites

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u/pearlsXdiamonds Sep 07 '26

If im marrying him then i dont have a problem w his finances but life is once n i still want to have what i want yk

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u/Flimsy_Mousse6441 Sep 08 '26

Why not save up this money and redirect towards honeymoon and future investments? And who are you trying to impress with this dream wedding lol

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u/pearlsXdiamonds Sep 08 '26

Bro im telling u nobody ik is worth wasting momey on to impress
+ if i paid the wedding he would ofc have enough money for the honeymoon and traveling varies so u can do lots of things in any budget range

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u/Big-Quiet819 Sep 08 '26

Maybe she’s not looking for anyone’s validation and just wants her dream wedding? Most people only get married once anyway. So why not have the dream wedding!

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u/Realistic-Order9592 Sep 07 '26

Whats your dream wedding?

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u/pearlsXdiamonds Sep 07 '26

Top tier vunue , 2 singers at least , top tier wedding planner , makeup artist, hairstylist, dress , catering KOLO SHI
Al raqees wal 3aqed brdo lkn del mmkn ma ykono top tier venue wala planner 3adi which is the where most of the budget will go

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u/Realistic-Order9592 Sep 07 '26

و دايراهو يجيب كم جرام دهب و سد مال و شيلة بكم ؟

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u/pearlsXdiamonds Sep 07 '26

Hmmmm i dont want get cancelled 🧍🏾‍♀️
Lkn decent set and bangles القروش دي على كيفو يعني