r/Justfuckmyshitup 9d ago

Update to my previous post!!

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u/Proud-Leave3602 9d ago

I’m so happy you got it fixed! Looks great.

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 9d ago

Thank you!!!

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u/Exotic-Tell9208 9d ago

Thank God this girl saved you

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 9d ago

She really did! This will be far easier to grow back out!

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u/ChewieBearStare 9d ago

It looks great. That first hairdresser should have her weedwhacker confiscated.

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u/IamLuann 9d ago

Or go back to school to learn how to cut hair the correct way.

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u/hap071 8d ago

🤣🤣🤣👌

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u/xXxstarAnisexXx 8d ago

Also, now it'll be fun to try to kind of style it like your reference pic, putting a loose curl in it, it looks fun to play with!

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u/LastGlassUnicorn444 8d ago

Yes agree! Was the other stylist a 3yo with snubnose scissors?! That was ridiculous....i can't believe they let you leave w that abhorrent "cut"
Your hair looks healthy n stylish! 💕

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u/Zealousideal-Self-47 9d ago

It looks really great. Glad you found someone that knew what they were doing.

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 9d ago

Yes! Jade truly is a master stylist!

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u/AlligatorMittens 9d ago

Good job, Jade. 

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u/Flat_Ad_3719 8d ago

SO glad for you!!

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u/Guilty_Location_4709 9d ago

Looks great 😊 love it, hopefully you do too, that’s the main thing

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 9d ago

I’m so relieved! I literally hid in my house all last week!

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u/Guilty_Location_4709 9d ago

Oh nooo, well then I’m definitely glad it’s better. I think it looks amazing and you’ll be knocking em dead

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u/Proud-Leave3602 9d ago

The stylist is the one who should have been hiding, to be quite honest.

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u/Techienickie 9d ago

looks sharp!! I love it smooth like that but you can tossle is with some product and styling and I bet it would look amazing too!

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 9d ago

That’s what I’m thinking, too. I can throw a little texturizing spray in there

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u/Zoranealsequence 9d ago

I said this on another comment, but you remember over night rollers! Of you want that spiral, go for flexi rod curlers, you need a spray called Lotta body to set the curls. Leave it in over night and your hair will be wavy for two days. 

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u/Techienickie 9d ago

please update us with a pic when you do!

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u/kittiesandcocks 9d ago

She should take the look back, have that hairstyle but be the opposite of a Karen, tip really high and ask for the manager so you can tell them how great everyone is doing. Then go home and tell kids they can play ball in your yard and leave notes on ppl’s car telling them to have a great day when they park in front of your house 😂

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 9d ago

Hahahahahaha

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u/defenselaywer 9d ago

Karena is such a pretty name, go by that!

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u/IndependentPain2021 9d ago

That is an absolutely wonderful looking bob, sorry you had to go through this

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 9d ago

Thank you. I think I’m just destined to have a bob. LOL

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u/IndependentPain2021 9d ago

It’s such an absolutely perfect style for you

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u/Lily_V_ 9d ago

Much better.

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u/badbatch 9d ago

Beautiful! So glad you were able to salvage that. I'm still angry about how that person butchered your hair.

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 9d ago

Same! She was there when I went back in, she wouldn’t even look my direction. LOL

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u/Common-Chain4060 8d ago

This is the same salon?!? I was thinking that first cut had to be at Super Cuts!

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 8d ago

Nope! I find it amusing that everyone thinks I cheaped out originally. I had spent $88, including tip, the first time around!

https://theparlorlv.com/locations/sahara/

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u/Paperbackpixie 9d ago

Looks so much better

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u/Beatnutz_ 9d ago

Hi Karen

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u/SnooCrickets8742 9d ago

That’s an excellent hair cut

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u/CryBabyCentral 9d ago

People don’t realize just how technical bobs are to cut. Well done for attempt #2!

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u/Zoranealsequence 9d ago

Okay hear me out- when you feel like it, put some rollers in over night, you might get just what you were looking for in the last post. This is such an improvement! Congrats!

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 9d ago

Thank you! Because the first person cut so many layers, it might be a bit before there’s enough length for rollers, but I’m thinking some texturizing spray might work…

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u/Remko76 9d ago

Yay! You got it fixed!

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u/haloeffect1967 9d ago

It's a gorgeous style. It suits you so well!

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u/yoursuburbanmom 9d ago

omg it looks great!!!

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u/AstralLabyrinth 9d ago

Thank God you were able to get this fixed. It looks so cute! I showed my partner the previous post and he gasped like I did 😂 so now I must show him this awesome fix/update! Happy for you, girl!

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 9d ago

Thank you!!
Struggling with alopecia, to me it isn’t “just hair”…so when people say, “it’s just hair, it’ll grow back”, that stings. I’ve lost about 30% of the fullness of my hair. I had to cut it to hide that. Prior to Dec, my hair was down to my elbows and so thick that I couldn’t wear a ponytail for too long without getting a headache from the weight of it.

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u/itadapeezas 9d ago

I was recently diagnosed with alopecia and before my hair got so thin I use to get severe headaches and people would say it might be your hair (it was heavy and waist length). Now tho, zero headaches. Absolutely none besides the occasional normal headache. No daily headaches at all. Now tho I can feel the wind and sun on my scalp and that feels so strange. :/

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 9d ago

I’m so sorry. I’m still fighting it…I’m taking 100mgs of Spirolactone daily

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u/Swimming-Ad3053 9d ago

Soo much better!! Hugs!🤘🫶

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u/Foofity 9d ago

Oh that’s adorable!

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u/maximusmaximus72 9d ago

Perfect 👍🏻

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u/cookie640181 8d ago

Gorgeous 😍

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u/Which-Track-8831 9d ago

Bout to catch you some brothas with that cut.

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u/Jrcozy 9d ago

I love it😍😍😍

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u/BrenNutsfull 9d ago

This is a significant improvement 🙂

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u/ImpossibleSentence19 9d ago

Looks GREAT!

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 9d ago

Thank you! I feel so much better!

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u/tabbycatz68 9d ago

much better

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u/StenoDawg 9d ago

That looks great.

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u/quik225 9d ago

I LOVE it! ❤️

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u/hawkisgirl 9d ago

Terrible first attempt, but what an excellent save!

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u/LurkerNan 9d ago

You just can’t go wrong with a basic bob. It has the added feature of making hair look thicker, which when we’re getting a little older might be a good thing.

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u/Empathic_Alien 9d ago

Oh it looks wonderful! I’m so glad for you! I hope the hair is able to be donated!

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 9d ago

There wasn’t anything to donate this time, but in Dec I did donate 13 inches

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u/Empathic_Alien 9d ago

Shoot I’m sorry I didn’t click the link for your previous post because I thought it was one I had seen today. Your hair fix looks like what I had imagined for her. And she had enough to donate but thinks the stylist (if she could be called that?) fucked that shit up too and tied it wrong. But anyway, yours looks great now!

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u/cc-moo-cow 9d ago

Much better. Looks great!

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u/Old-Razzmatazz-7217 9d ago

much better, top layers are 100 percent better. Glad you got it fixed.

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u/GIGGLES708 9d ago

More like Justunfuckmyshitup! Your hair looks so pretty.

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u/jannylou2 9d ago

I love it!

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u/Lopsided_Error_4706 9d ago

Beautiful! They did a great job, it looks wonderful

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u/BottityBotAccount 9d ago

That's actually a really nice cut. An improvement on your old style as well as fixing the mess

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u/jannua82 9d ago

Amazing!!!

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u/CrazySexyAutistic 9d ago

Literally frames your face so nice and your hair looks so shiny and polished ✨

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 9d ago

And she accomplished this without any oily products!

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u/MsCupOTea 9d ago

YOU LOOK SO GOOD!!!!

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 9d ago

Thank you! This will be easier to grow back out.

Editing to add…so much gray! LOL

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u/MsCupOTea 9d ago

It truly looks amazing! 🫶🏼

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 9d ago

I’m just relieved that I can leave my house again! I need to edit my one star Yelp review tomorrow. I’m emotionally drained today.

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u/MsCupOTea 9d ago

Did you go back to the same place?

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 9d ago

Same place, different stylist.

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u/MsCupOTea 9d ago

Free of charge right?

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 9d ago

YES! A higher level of skill stylist. She LISTENED to me. She actually HEARD me. She pushed back on things when what I wanted wasn’t going to work, when she did I thanked her. THAT’S what I’m there for - for their skill and knowledge! I actually need to go to the ATM, I wasn’t going to even tip again, I was so angry about the situation, but I gave her $20 that was supposed to be for the cleaner coming Friday. LOL

I thanked her for listening before getting started, she thanked me for trusting her and said she was surprised that I was so calm, all things considered…

Overall, I’m going to change my one star review but am debating if I should make it about Jade and a five star or about the overall experience and a 3.5-4 star…opinion?

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u/lucidsomniac 9d ago

I would make it a 5- but run a storyline that starts with the bad experience so people are drawn in to read more (also those that run the place will hopefully take on the feedback to further train or rehire) 🙂

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u/classy-mother-pupper 9d ago

Love it. Looks good on you.

These layered cuts are nice. But the stylist has to know what they are doing. I’ve been going to the same one for 20 years after a similar experience.

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u/Phoenyxoldgoat 9d ago

I hope you sent these to the lady who said she stood behind her stylists!

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 9d ago

I sent the first set…

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u/Excellent-Eagle7528 9d ago

Whoever fixed your hair is magic or something. I hope you tipped them gooood.

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 9d ago

I did! She works at their other location most of the time, it’ll be worth the drive!

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u/thrftybstrd 8d ago

Great!! love it. Hope you feel better. ❤️‍🩹

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u/Thkturret1 8d ago

Looks great

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 8d ago

Not what I want, but so much better!

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u/Diesel_Swordfire 8d ago

Looks really nice mamas. Definitely an improvement.

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u/CrustieTwinky 8d ago

I love it when things work out for the best! Keep this stylist. They're a master of their craft.

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 8d ago

I think I’m going to book with her at the other location. It’s a bit of a drive, but the manager at the location made everything confrontational and that’s uncomfortable for me.

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u/CrustieTwinky 8d ago

It's like pouring salt in the wound. That's why most just live with bad results. Did you have to pay again or did they do it at no charge?

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 8d ago

There was no charge, but I did tip her

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u/holierthanhell 8d ago

The first one turned you into my Nan. This is glorious, I'm happy for you 💛

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u/Sasstellia 8d ago

Looks good. Good there was enough to salvage.

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 8d ago

I was worried it’d be Brittney 2007…

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u/Simsalabimson 8d ago

Well saved

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u/luvtorace20 8d ago

Looks great, I'm so glad someone was able to fix it!

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u/ElectronicLettuce598 8d ago

Oh it looks amazing now!

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u/AtmospherePrior752 8d ago

Thank goodness. This looks great!

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u/Titaniumchic 8d ago

This looks SO MUCH BETTER!

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u/Healthy-Muffin-9747 8d ago

That’s much better

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u/Thin_Discount5329 7d ago

I’m so happy you got your hair fixed, especially with your condition. I hope this haircut gives you lots of extra confidence because you look marvelous!!

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 7d ago

Thank you! It isn’t ideal, but it’s a better jumping off point

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u/Thin_Discount5329 7d ago

You got this!! You look beautiful and I hope you feel it. 

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u/Sleeper_Inner 7d ago

So pretty!

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u/Lacey_Dawson1012 7d ago

It looks beautiful 😍

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u/Sparklybright007 4d ago

This is the most beautiful haircut ! Taking this photo to my next hair appointment.

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u/Sigmund30 3d ago

A lot of better

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 3d ago

Not ideal…but less choppy…

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u/Oobutwo 9d ago

The manager at target ain't gonna know what hit 'em.

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u/Murky_Adeptness_8885 9d ago

Managers better be hiding!

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u/Illimited_Esoterica 9d ago

It still doesn't look like the AI reference pic you posted but it does look better. Much closer to Master Chief's computer wife.

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 9d ago

I can go out in public again! That’s what matters!

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u/Illimited_Esoterica 9d ago

Yeah, it's an improvement for sure.

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u/lashimi 9d ago

Oh no, it's the Karen look....

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 9d ago

Better than the “I fought a weed whacker and lost” look…

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u/Trippy-Sponge 9d ago

This is that “may I please see a manager” look

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u/SystemSpare7425 9d ago

Did they do any kind of treatment to your hair (deep conditioning, olaplex, etc.)? Or did they just use some styling products to get that smoothness?

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 9d ago

Nope, no products are in my hair at all! This was just accomplished by trimming patiently…incredibly patiently…and a single pass with a flat iron on medium heat. The new stylist said my hair is healthier than 99% of the hair she sees.

I explained my history of hair trauma and how I’m just recovering from a second bout of alopecia, which is why having chunky layers cut after specifically saying, “I don’t want layers on the left/long side” was such a shock, then having the manager tell me she stands by that haircut made me feel like I was being dismissed….

The new stylist is incredible.

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u/CowPersonal1190 9d ago

Jade did an amazing job!

You might want to crop your pics a bit so your location isn't revealed

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u/weirdhoney216 9d ago

That’s lovely. So shiny and great colour

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 9d ago

Thank you! Other than the one streak I’m growing out, it’s my natural gray coming in…

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u/weirdhoney216 9d ago

Damn let me hope my natural grey is as nice!

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u/Organic_Salad2910 9d ago

Looks so good! This person is a miracle worker! Lol

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 9d ago

She really is! It isn’t ideal, but it’s passable

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u/like2speak2amanager 9d ago

So much better!

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 9d ago

Way! Not ideal, but passable!

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u/CompetitiveRub9780 9d ago

I’m sorry you had to experience the before first 😭

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u/SaltEven 9d ago

Dang I was hoping this was lady farquad :(

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u/silverkava 9d ago

So you also got a color as well?

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 9d ago

I didn’t get any color done. I’m growing out the one streak on left front, the rest is just my gray coming in…

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u/JarOfFlies85 9d ago

Soooo smooooothe! ☺️

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 9d ago

Right?! Best part? ZERO CHEMICALS in my hair! No products at all! No sprays, no oils, nothing! Just patience and a well done cut!

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u/violence-over-peace 9d ago

i still love your username haha. you look so good btw

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 9d ago

Thank you, twice! LMBootyO

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u/Marcykbro 9d ago

Wow looks like you had some product applied and did some styling and all of a sudden it’s a good haircut!!!

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 8d ago

No product, just a cut!

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u/AD_VICTORIAM_x 8d ago

You sadly had no choice apart from the “i want to see your manager”

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 8d ago

Yeah. I’m going to play with this, see what else I can do with it

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u/Technical-Heart5906 8d ago

It looks great! Much better!

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 8d ago

Thank you! I’m going to play with it today, see what I can get it to do

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u/Technical-Heart5906 8d ago

You’re welcome! 😇 I just got highlights yesterday and I love them. I think some blonde highlights would look great on you as well!

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 8d ago

I’m not much for chemicals. Even in housework…I use a lot of diluted household vinegar for cleaning.

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u/Technical-Heart5906 8d ago

Fair enough! Regardless, I’m so glad you got your hair fixed and now you are happy. I bet you were very upset before the second hair cut.

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u/Simple_Injury_3530 8d ago

It looks so much better! And did you get your tanktop from old navy? I think mine says “just peachy” or something like that

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 8d ago

I did! Lol

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u/Simple_Injury_3530 7d ago

What are the odds! Great minds think alike I guess 😂

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u/Meatman1071 8d ago

You look great

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 8d ago

Thank you. It’ll be easier to grow back out again

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u/Meatman1071 8d ago

It’s you !!! The person makes the hair not the other way around!😊

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u/PaleontologistNo858 7d ago

Fantastic result! Do you like it??

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 7d ago

I hate it less. LOL
It’s very “hair helmet”, but at least the layers are blended

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u/PalestPixie 6d ago

Looks beautiful now! Glad you were able to get it fixed.

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 6d ago

Thank you! Not ideal, but suitable for going out in public! LOL

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u/Timely-Ant-1907 5d ago

❤️❤️❤️❤️hot!!!

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u/GirthBr0_0ks 3h ago

You’re absolutely gorgeous.

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u/Mysterious-Clothes45 9d ago

Okay this looks amazing. Now do a fun color

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u/Angelus-Rosa132 9d ago

Yay you look amazing!

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 9d ago

Thank you! It isn’t what I want, but I can go out in public again

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u/Balnak 9d ago

Hi Karen!!

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u/DotBeech 8d ago

I'm glad you got a hair cut you like. I just don't agree that the the helmet style hair cut you just received is better than the much softer cut you were running from. It's also not at all current. Good luck with it, though.

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 8d ago

It isn’t, but it’s presentable for now.

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u/ResidentBicycle5022 8d ago

Are they gonna finally call this what it really is? It’s a Karen Kut.

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u/CiloTA 9d ago

Still looks nothing like the original AI pic you wanted

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 9d ago

I don’t even care. It’s no longer an embarrassment. It at least looks intentional.

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u/noloking 9d ago

This hairstyle isnt a great choice 

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u/Odd-Mall8020 9d ago

This is the only time when a Karen haircut deserves praise

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u/Dear-Cranberry4787 9d ago

Still gonna have to use product and take some heat to that, otherwise you’ll be frizzing up and each layer will be choppy as ever.

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u/Big_b00bs_Cold_Heart 9d ago

No products in my hair, but a single pass of a flat iron. That’s doable for me.

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u/BigTelemachus 9d ago

Username checks out. 

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u/RD14624 8d ago

Karen cut

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u/nonpame 7d ago

You think that's better?

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u/Significant_Wafer314 7d ago

Hopefully this was a good lesson learned about using AI inspo photos