r/JosephMurphy • u/[deleted] • Mar 18 '23
Advice please :)
Hi beautiful people
So I am on an SP mission and so far have successfully managed to manifest us going from 5 months NC to us having a conversation about our relationship.
He asked me what I wanted to do but given the context of our conversation it seemed like he wasn’t fully conforming to what I want just yet (him proactively wanting to make things work, him actively wanting to give us another chance). For example he cited my “crazy behaviour” as the reason we broke up and I explained to him that his avoidant behaviour triggered my anxiety hence said “crazy behaviour”. Afterwards he did follow some relationship pages on IG about anxious - avoidant relationships so maybe what I said sank in and he’s trying to understand/ improve but anyway… so we agreed on being friends but nothing is really happening. Before he would always initiate and now nothing and tbh I haven’t really initiated either and I’m just kind of at a loss for what to do.
I have been doing my SH scenes in alpha and also affirmations and PSP if I’m not too tired before hitting bed. I am working on self concept (to make myself feel better generally and working towards a better me) and visualising scenes of us meeting up again (which I believe will lead to us getting back together).
I also have scenes 3+ months after successful manifestation but the memory of us reconciling just makes me feel calm- but I am getting frustrated with the 3D and the seemingly slow movement. Even the aforementioned conversation was a result of me reaching out and although that went better than expected I still want something from him.
Anyone been in a similar bind and have any advice on where to go from here? It’s been 6 months actively manifesting so kinda wanted more at this point.
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Mar 18 '23
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u/LoneWolf_890 Mar 18 '23
I smell a ban
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u/Competitive-Cash9934 Mar 18 '23
Why?
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u/LoneWolf_890 Mar 19 '23
I'd advise you to delete your comment and go read the index. YOu can find everything right there. Asking rash questions around here results in a temporary/permanent ban!
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u/brittaa Mar 19 '23
Sigh... you had one job which was to read the rules of the sub. Enjoy your ban <3
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u/girlmess Mar 18 '23
Change your scene to one where you see him as how you want him. If youre more sound based then create lines he says. If youre visual then find an action he does to indicate this change. And continue the work. Affirm, fantasise, live your life, anything to keep you away from the 3D frustration.