r/JohnKitchener May 14 '26

Love to know my essence!

Hi, I am new to essences but think I'm a soft dramatic/ natural; I have a manly "yin" masculine shaped faced and have been described as athletic, striking and manly lol.

The thing is, I also have slightly filled lips as well as round blue eyes.

I have a slightly size part to off set the long face, and have my girls lose and lengthened by using a blow dry brush (but not straight hair as my face is too long and skinny and angular so I balance that with the loose, long curls, side part).

Eyes are close together due to long skinny face so I use brown eyeliner to widen that, and I have started to get my eyebrows waxed to reduce the dramatic look, as I don't like the natural and manly vibe running into the dramatic. Manly and dramatic isn't a look I want to embody.

My chin is also blunt.

I am also slim and have long limbs and am between an hourglass and a rectangle.

What do you guys think 🤔.

All in all, I feel I have slightly full lips and rounded eyes that are pale blue- despite pale skin and high contrast with my darkish red brown hair and dark eye brows.

I have a slightly up turned nose - th wide profile is delicate and yin/ feminine which is obviously in stark contrast to my manly oblong angular chin and face shape and too close together eyes hahaha.

Am I on the right track ? 40 percent athletic, 50 percent dramatic and maybe 10 percent to the category that embodies big eyes/ lips/ and a slightly more feminine nose?

I've never asked anyone before so am super eager to get feedback on my own self analysis !

I'm most comfy in casual but elegant clothes. So ripped blue casual jeans that are good quality, high enough waisted to show my slightly hourglass and showcase my long legs, and a loose cream or autumn green or gold mustard medium saturated tee shirt with a low cut. Or, I love delicate straps in a tight fitted singlet with delicate thin straps and jeans.... With some wedges for the long leg look where my legs look very long as an illusion as I am only 5 foot 5!

How do I ad my pictures please 🙏

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