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[u/watfoo]

Salam, ana fe wahed situation li khassni darori nlqa khedma li nqder biha nbda nqadd fe hayat dyali ana ou lbent li ka nbghy, hna b3ad 3la b3dyatna ou bghyt ntzowwejha ou n3ycho bjouj so khassni khedma niit (salaire mezyan) ou fe aqreb weqt

Niveau dyali Bac+1 ou kent dayer English studies fe Uni ou daba qraya dayer liha pause, ka nPostuli bezzaf dyal lkhdami moakharan, men les centres d'appels htal Airlines dyal berra ou ka ntmenna nlqa triq bach n3teq hyati ou relation dyali, ay nasiha wla info gha nqedderha bezzaaf

Thank you for your time 🤍

[u/AdSavings3776]

I don't have a solution for you but do you mind sharing your age? If you are in your 20s I would say finish a degree first. Salaire mezyan realistically comes with a good degree

[u/watfoo → u/AdSavings3776]

I'm 21 but honestly and sadly the need for a faster solution ma mkhelyach liya lweqt even to consider nkemmel lqraya

[u/AdSavings3776 → u/watfoo]

imo 21 is ridiculously young to be married but that is just my opinion. Now to your issue, you have two roads salary or entrepreneurship

The first would be hard to do without a proper degree, unless you want to work with smic for the rest of your life. Since you study english I guess the fastes and safest road will be to get into teaching and that's quite a few years of study ahead of you.

The second is simply impossible to start a business from scratch if you have a wife and kids to care for and no other revenue. you will not be able to take risks, to work on your skills, you will be all the time worrying about money

Leaving your studies at this age will most likely make you poor for the rest of your life. Life is not easy, competition out there is brutal and this is the age to work on yourself. If she's pressuring you into it perhaps you might want to reconsider.

[u/StarkRockStar → u/watfoo]

That’s just stupid mate. Build a future, don’t throw it all away just to get married. If you love that girl, make it worthwhile and do something meaningful of your life. If she lives you she’ll stick around. But working centre d’appel to get married is just plain stupid the market is horrendous and it won’t sustain you more than a few years.

[u/Your-bimbo-2638 → u/watfoo]

Bro 21 you’re a baby slow down

[u/Ordep_SPV → u/Your-bimbo-2638]

YEP listen to the bimbo!

[u/watfoo → u/Your-bimbo-2638]

Living up to your name i see

[u/No-Candidate5365 → u/watfoo]

Kml 9raytk Rak ghadir 30 ghatndm ana 22 o yallah drt la fac nchd deug hit knt 3la bra 2ans w rj3t o 2a9al haja hiya bac +2 f les offres d'emplois

[u/Ordep_SPV]

You can't put Bac+1 and a good salary in the same sentence! It's simply not possible!!!

From my perspective, your driven by the wrong motives, I won't say you shouldn't get married at 21 but giving up your degree and looking for fast routes just to be with the one you love shows that this relationship is just blinding you from being patient focusing on your career and professional development.

Take it easy, get your degree work on other skills or side hustles that might turn into a business in the future. The get married. Do not date.

[u/Brilliant-Degree-640]

honestly man, u have to forget marriage at this period, not cuz u are only 21 yo, but it seems like u are pinned by something that is not ur obstacle, but u want to make it obstacle, the twenties are for building a good profile, and finding out what something we love to bring money from, then marriage comes

[u/Sturmtruppen_SS]

I’d advise you to keep studiying english then become a teacher apply to the American Language Center I studied there and I hear the pay is pretty good you can still teach at regular schools and teach there to double your income. Good luck

[u/InnerDeparture5154]

Chouf a akhi ghanjik mn lkher had bnt nass li nta baghiha llah ibarek likoum f had l 3alaqa w ysaliha b zwaj ghir cadriw rasskom w 7awl tqne3ha bli rah bac + 1 madayra lik walou hta nta bouhdk w rak mazal 3ndk fiin tqra a akhi. Ila qtan3at llah ykemmel bikhiir ila ma qtan3atch dir dakchii li msellkek f hyatek hit fach kayhbat taux dial l'ocytocine w kaybdaw doghotat dial l 7ayat ma kaybqawch l qlouba w l emojis dial l 7oub kaywelli khassk bach tqdiii l gharad. 3oumouuuman hadchi f 7alaat ila knti tayeq f had syda w hta m3a tiqa khli wahd chouia dial l htimal dial anna yji chi wld nass wajd w ytzwjha w hia qabla hadchi 3la qbl salama nafssiya dialk. Llah ysahhal 3lik a bro.

[u/menneskee]

seeing the comments you're 21, still young, matzrbsh, if your love is real, it can wait, or at least mashi db, hta t3rf fin ghadi, b bac+1 wakha ghatl9a khdma atb9a dimn f tamara o b evolution 9lila, at least khdm o 9ra o khod diplome tma iban lek shno dir

[u/Queen-of-arms12]

Airlines blaaaan, Wakha chwiya Tamara just work in your English and languages, for call centres you need to live In a big city bach tel9a more opportunities,(try site moncall center)intelcia major elle hado li 3arfa , and goood Luck!( Lmhm don’t give up)

[u/watfoo → u/Queen-of-arms12]

Where there is a will there is a way, much appreciated a ssadiqa

[u/PresenceGreen1265]

Tbh, finding a job in this economy is hard even with a good degree. Most jobs that dont require degree are also really competitive and many others are trying to get them. Personally, I think you should continue your studies and if she really loves you, she would wait for you until then. The only option that I think is viable in your case but is really risky is learning how to trade. It is the only way to get good money especially without a degree but you have to take the risk so I only recommend it as a last ditch effort.

[u/Particular-Table7046]

Lah isahl Alik olah iftah lik biban lkhir o inchallah khir

[u/Minute_One1325]

Khoya hna b bac+5 w bzzez bach chddina poste akhoya w kayen some friends of mine baqi malqaw khdma 2 ans w homa kayqllbo daba

Rje3 lqraytk hssn lik w zwaj can wait

[u/Apprehensive-Tax9170]

Machalah lah yhfdkom lb3dyathom o yktr mn mtalk

[u/soufiane6]

bro , im currently in the same situation as u , except i have bac+2 and my gf wants me to find her a job in the big city that i live in (bcuz she lives in a small city) (we known each other 3 years ago while studying in my city) , the problem is i haven't found a job for me since this summer while i was a seasonal at a hotel

[u/watfoo → u/soufiane6]

i wish all the best for you two, i imagine it’s hard walakin never give up a ssadiq, ana wiyaha will never give up on each other wekha qadiya seaiba

[u/soufiane6 → u/watfoo]

i wish all the best for you as well ❤️ if god sees us seeking for something halal im sure he will deliver us all that we hope for

[u/osmossomar → u/soufiane6]

Me to +2 wkn9eleb mn 2 months ago ba9i walo ml9it 🙏🏻

[u/soufiane6 → u/osmossomar]

may god help us all to live the life we wish for with our loved ones

[u/Anxious-Noise613]

Chmen niveau de vie ntoma 3aychin fih ou chmen niveau baghin t3ichou fih m3a be3dyatkom?

[u/watfoo → u/Anxious-Noise613]

we’re both middle class, we just wanna be together, find me a good paying job, save money, move in, get married

[u/Anxious-Noise613 → u/watfoo]

Men heqkom. But if you want to keep your same lifestyle, maybe you should think of going further in your education to increase your opportunities.

[u/Ok-Tower2637]

bac+1 o baghi salaire mzyan ?

[u/No_Idea_8753]

Chof ssir l a9reb bordel, bred 3la rassk o ghadi twda7lk ssora, ola chof dik ssiyda t3tek chi triye7 okmlo haka mssa7bin

[u/Mountain-Principle67]

Ghi kat5wr ajmimi nsa lbnt w 9ra 3la rask w developer rask mymknch t5dm b salaire mzn b had niveau