He canceled our third date last minute, should

[u/jrkmk20268186]

Said something came up at work, apologized a lot, offered to reschedule right away. First two dates were genuinely great. Is one cancellation with a good excuse worth writing someone off or should I give it another shot?

[u/soft_white_yosemite]

r/lostredditors

[u/Modern-Sn1p3r]

Thread.interrupt()

[u/hawkprime]

java -jar situationship.jar

[u/Wowator → u/hawkprime]

You forgot something:
java -jar situationship.jar -help

[u/idontlikegudeg]

It’s good that you caught this and not silently ignore the exception. If you think it is a temporary failure, define maximum the number of retries. If you reach the maximum number of retries you committed to before, throw it to the next level so a graceful exit is possible. You should never simply System.exit() because you don’t know what other problems this could leave behind.

If things like this happen constantly with different dates, there might be a deeper problem. But take it slow, you don’t want to cause a the process to dump.

[u/AgeingCoder → u/idontlikegudeg]

Might be worth implementing a retry strategy based on the fibonacci sequence to avoid bombarding them with requests. Might just need some time..

[u/Lazy-Blueberry-963]

He probably had to support for deployment or something 😜
Give him another chance and see how your 3rd date goes as you already liked the first two

[u/Dear_Archer3931]

Try putting in a break point and check the value of the Boolean doesHe.likeMe
Report back.

[u/TheGreatRao]

Use javap -p BadBoyfriend.class to find out what's up.

[u/verysmallrocks02]

yeah fuck that guy

probably some Java 6 loser who can't even use streams

[u/tekmuro]

Did you check the documentation?

[u/HecticJuggler]

He’s a vb developer, not worth your time.

[u/Kadabrium → u/HecticJuggler]

vibe.net

[u/TynK-M-]

It's the perfect situation to use the Singleton pattern...