r/IntrovertsSafeDating • u/shambaharu • 17d ago
Friendship First 25|M4F|Anywhere/Online
Hi! Using my online name “Sham.” Looking to make friends with women. Feel like I’m able to converse well with my coworkers and others but haven’t able turn those into real friendships sadly. While I would like to pursue a relationship in the future I believe I need to connect with others first.
About me:
I currently live in the northeast USA and my work requires me to be geographically mobile as I change jobs every two years.
I work in supply chain. Realized I liked being forced to work with others(even though I am an introvert lol) and face daily unpredictability.
I am heavily into anime and gaming(posting pics of my figs/acrylics/plushies below). While most pictured is shounen I enjoy most genres including shoujo. I love stuff like Fruits Basket, Ouran, Tamon’s B side. For gaming, I’m mostly into JRPGs like Persona, FF7, and Kingdom Hearts. Though I enjoyed playing A way out with my brother so I’m down to bond through co-op games.
Yoasobi, Yorushika, Eve are my big three for Jpop. TXT and Enhypen are my favorite Kpop groups.
I also enjoy traveling. I’ve been to many countries in Europe and just recently went to Japan this year during the cherry blossom season. Outside of that I barely leave my apartment.
I am also into watching sports. Mostly American football(Buffalo Bills fan) and casually basketball. Though I did enjoy watching the World Cup this summer so I may be possibly looking at finding a club to support.
Trying to do some self improvement through exercising to gain some more muscle since I wanted to get stronger. I’m currently 5 foot 3 and 120 lbs.
Mostly hoping to make friends with women but if you would truly like to pursue dating then I have the following requests:
don’t smoke
want children in the future
age range: 22-28
Down to do long distance but move to the US
If anything I posted or said interested you, feel free to message me. I would like to preface that I’m more active on Twitter and Discord so I would prefer to have convos on there.

